Cait11 wrote:

I was bad and looked at his social media.

The same rough time frame he told me he liked her but didn't love her, he posted a picture of them on Instagram about how lucky he was to have her as his gf.

On Facebook, he'd been calling her "babe".

Yesterday he posted something about needing to stay off social media before he "got in trouble". He told someone be got pissed enough he cried, and feelings were hurt. He was looking to find ways to curb his social media use. I have a feeling it has to do with all my pictures he liked yesterday on FB and Instagram. Part of me hopes this is a sign; the other part of me feels like he's going to drift further away.

I feel very lost and uncertain. I feel hurt. Especially if """babe""" got mad at him for liking my stuff, because hmm... sounds like how I acted at times. Only I didn't lead him to try and find ways to curb his social media use.

I just want these feelings to go away. I honestly almost want to forget him. Tell him to go away. To have fun with his even more controlling "babe".

My first feeling when reading this is that it’s a good thing! He’s obviously having some problems with her, which may have manifested from the work you’ve been doing. You give meaning to things, so I would definitely label it as a sign.

If she got mad over him liking your pictures, that shows she is insecure and jealous. We all make mistakes, so don’t feel hurt over the past. But now you see why it’s advised to not look at their social media. It just messes up your alignment for no good reason.