fizzy wrote:

Shelly wrote:

Hello so I wrote a month ago about how my boyfriend thinks I cheated on him so he broke up with me. There hasn’t been any change in that department so far, but today I’m just completely out of alignment and I don’t even know where to start to fix things. I know I want to be in California living with him. Right now I live with my parents in an extremely small town, my parents scream and fight a lot and today it’s just insane. I don’t have a car because I shared one with my boyfriend so I can’t really go anywhere far but I’m thinking about going on a walk to the park. A major problem that has been borthing me today though is a job. Honestly the only place to work around here is a mill and it makes me feel horrible to think about having to do that, am I just suppose look at it differently and to do it anyway and be thankful I have a job even if it’s not what I want? Also I’m very uninterested in making friends around here and becoming part of the community. I’m grateful my parents are letting me stay here but I just want out. I 100 percent feel like I’m living my own personal nightmare. How do I get out of this rut? Sorry if this brings anyone’s vibe down but I just really am needing some sort of guidance at the moment. Help! Lol

The good thing about this is that each subject is its own subject. So what I mean is, if you feel good and believe good things about your relationship, but feel badly about another part of your life like a job, how you feel about the job won’t affect your relationship, as long as the feelings/beliefs don’t overlap in any way. An example of them overlapping would be if you feel you aren’t good enough for your partner because you can’t find a decent job or something like that.

I don’t think I read the post you made before about your boyfriend, but that’s just a story that isn’t importanf anymore, anyway. It isn’t relevant to what you want to manifest now. To manifest the relationship you want with him, you need to be living in the wish fulfilled. You should be consistently imagining and feeling that everything is good between the two of you right now. Stay in that feeling even if there is no evidence of that right now. It has to manifest eventually if you feel that it’s yours and ignore anything that suggests otherwise.

Since it seems that current reality is slapping you in the face right now when it comes to your living situation, it might be easier to manifest a healed relationship with your boyfriend first, and then you moving to California later after the relationship manifests. Of course you can imagine living with him in California along with feeling you are in the relationship with him now, but it may be difficult to change your beliefs about all of that at the same time. Or not, I could be completely wrong about that! So of course you should decide that for yourself.

I know you are feeling very down about your current situation and don’t want to work at that mill or make friends where you are, but I think being a little bit more open-minded might help you. I speak from personal experience when it comes to this. Getting any type of job will get you out of the house and give you purpose every day. Also you may surprise yourself and actually make some friends, which will only help you. Look at it as a temporary thing. You don’t have to work there forever and you’ll be making money which will help you get your life on track. You could even save for a car of your own, which will give you more freedom. Then you could even go for another job.

This is just my advice based off of my own knowledge and experiences. I hope it helps in some way.

I love this!!!!!!! Can you help me more with my beauty?
 

fizzy wrote:

Shelly wrote:

Hello so I wrote a month ago about how my boyfriend thinks I cheated on him so he broke up with me. There hasn’t been any change in that department so far, but today I’m just completely out of alignment and I don’t even know where to start to fix things. I know I want to be in California living with him. Right now I live with my parents in an extremely small town, my parents scream and fight a lot and today it’s just insane. I don’t have a car because I shared one with my boyfriend so I can’t really go anywhere far but I’m thinking about going on a walk to the park. A major problem that has been borthing me today though is a job. Honestly the only place to work around here is a mill and it makes me feel horrible to think about having to do that, am I just suppose look at it differently and to do it anyway and be thankful I have a job even if it’s not what I want? Also I’m very uninterested in making friends around here and becoming part of the community. I’m grateful my parents are letting me stay here but I just want out. I 100 percent feel like I’m living my own personal nightmare. How do I get out of this rut? Sorry if this brings anyone’s vibe down but I just really am needing some sort of guidance at the moment. Help! Lol

The good thing about this is that each subject is its own subject. So what I mean is, if you feel good and believe good things about your relationship, but feel badly about another part of your life like a job, how you feel about the job won’t affect your relationship, as long as the feelings/beliefs don’t overlap in any way. An example of them overlapping would be if you feel you aren’t good enough for your partner because you can’t find a decent job or something like that.

I don’t think I read the post you made before about your boyfriend, but that’s just a story that isn’t importanf anymore, anyway. It isn’t relevant to what you want to manifest now. To manifest the relationship you want with him, you need to be living in the wish fulfilled. You should be consistently imagining and feeling that everything is good between the two of you right now. Stay in that feeling even if there is no evidence of that right now. It has to manifest eventually if you feel that it’s yours and ignore anything that suggests otherwise.

Since it seems that current reality is slapping you in the face right now when it comes to your living situation, it might be easier to manifest a healed relationship with your boyfriend first, and then you moving to California later after the relationship manifests. Of course you can imagine living with him in California along with feeling you are in the relationship with him now, but it may be difficult to change your beliefs about all of that at the same time. Or not, I could be completely wrong about that! So of course you should decide that for yourself.

I know you are feeling very down about your current situation and don’t want to work at that mill or make friends where you are, but I think being a little bit more open-minded might help you. I speak from personal experience when it comes to this. Getting any type of job will get you out of the house and give you purpose every day. Also you may surprise yourself and actually make some friends, which will only help you. Look at it as a temporary thing. You don’t have to work there forever and you’ll be making money which will help you get your life on track. You could even save for a car of your own, which will give you more freedom. Then you could even go for another job.

This is just my advice based off of my own knowledge and experiences. I hope it helps in some way.

thank you so much for replying! I’m really happy to know that I don’t have to feel good about everything! I was a little confused in that area. I thought I just had to be completely happy and ok with everything to manifest anything good! That’s a huge relief. I literally went for living in a city with the love of my life and having a well paying job to living in a redneck racist vegan hating town in the middle of nowhere so I was struggling pretty hard to be happy with everything lol I was driving myself crazy!


 

Last edited by Shelly (5/22/2018 5:23 pm)

fizzy wrote:

excalibar wrote:

I love this!!!!!!! Can you help me more with my beauty?
 

Thanks I could try.

 
What else can you think of?

fizzy wrote:

excalibar wrote:

fizzy wrote:

Thanks I could try.

 
What else can you think of?

Well I already suggested you listen to subliminals, which you said you’ve been doing. Do you believe that will work for you? It’s important that you believe in the effectiveness of them or are at least open to the idea that they could create real change for you.

I think in addition to the subliminals, you should also be living in the end of having your desired appearance. You can visualize your desired changes but also make sure that you don’t feel like it’s something separate from you. Walk around in the feeling that you look like you want to look already. I would avoid looking in mirrors. It’s ok to check your appearance, but I wouldn’t analyze my face and I especially wouldn’t look at all the things I would like to change. That would be reinforcing current reality. Feel like you look like you want to look right now. How would you carry yourself? What thoughts would you have about yourself? That’s the energy you want to be in right now.

Thank you so much. I love you! Even though my sp and I are together forever! 😉❤️🌺