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Depressed
Very depressed. Have tried to keep vibrations high for over a year. Haven't manifested what I want.
Broken hearted.
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Very depressed. Have tried to keep vibrations high for over a year. Haven't manifested what I want.
Broken hearted.
You can either still be saying these same things a year or two or ten from now, or you can give up, or you can take the very good advice you've been given and actually follow it, and that doesn't mean doing it a time or two whilst constantly complaining that you haven't heard from him yet, that he thinks you're a horrible person, that he's with somebody else, and how depressed and broken hearted you are. If you really want your SP back, you've got to be singleminded about it and stay focussed on only that, having the ideal relationship with him like you have it right now Judging by the things you've said on this forum, you don't really have any belief you can get him back nor believe in conscious creation. You've been swayed by other people's negative opinions. You are the only thinker in your mind, and you are the only creator in your universe. You are your universe, there isn't one outside yourself. I reiterate my previous advice of reading and/or listening to Neville Goddard until you really believe what he's teaching about imagination creating reality and about living in the end of the wish fulfilled and actually apply it and keep applying it. This is like planting seeds. You have to give them time to sprout and grow. You wouldn't keep on digging them up to see if they're still there, if they look all right to you, and if there is any sign of them starting to grow before they actually appear above ground, but this is effectively what you've been doing, at best. Below is a good starting point.
Either revise the past and change it to the way you would have wanted things to have happened or put the past in the past and forget about it. Don't think about how long it's been. Don't think about all of the negatives about the SP and what he's done in the past to cost you a lot of money and a lot of hurt. Don't think about any other person being involved in the situation. Don't think about all of the negative opinions about the situation that you've had from other people that have clearly been influencing you. None of that matters in the least unless you allow it to matter and give it power by continuing to dwell on it and letting it bother you. Focus only on the relationship you want to have with this person as if it is yours right now. It was once yours. You were engaged to this person. It happened once, it can happen again. Start afresh from now like you haven't had any failures with this. Put all of that behind you. That's what you must do if you really want this SP back and to have the relationship you want with him. Imagination, faith, belief, persistence, patience, and singlemindedness are what is needed to change this situation.
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You're so right and I appreciate that you always respond.
I think I'm doubtful because I'm yet to see a good enough proportion of success stories. There are thousands and thousands of people on loa forums, but only a handful of people who have manifested.
The results and statistics speak for themselves and I feel like where success has happened it has been a coincidence.
The more I visualise and try to manifest the more I stop myself from moving on. Both are just as painful as each other.
I am depressed because I can't believe I have lost him.
the pain of each day is unbearable...
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And if there are more success stories but people haven't posted and shared them I feel that is a real injustice and people should come forward to share them!
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You're so right and I appreciate that you always respond.
I think I'm doubtful because I'm yet to see a good enough proportion of success stories. There are thousands and thousands of people on loa forums, but only a handful of people who have manifested.
The results and statistics speak for themselves and I feel like where success has happened it has been a coincidence.
The more I visualise and try to manifest the more I stop myself from moving on. Both are just as painful as each other.
I am depressed because I can't believe I have lost him.
the pain of each day is unbearable...
I have personally manifested many different things. I can assure you this is real, and there are no coincidences. I don't care if there are any other success stories in the world, and neither should you. That's completely irrelevant to what I or you can do. If you need success stories, read Neville Goddard's book, The Law and the Promise. It has some great ones, some really amazing, almost miraculous ones. I have my own success stories, and that's enough for me. There are many failures because a lot of people don't know what they are doing and do it wrong. I've seen loads of mistakes all over this forum. It's like the blind leading the blind. You either want your SP back or you don't. You're already in pain over this. Are you afraid of failing and being disappointed? You're already more than disappointed. What have you got to lose by giving this a fair go? You've already lost it all, but you can get it back, but you've got to change your attitude, forget the past, forget your failures, suspend your disbelief, open your mind, listen to Neville and follow his advice. He was a master at conscious creation, and he made it his life's work to teach it to other people, who then had many successes of their own. You can have your own success story to share with other people and inspire them to have their own, or you can continue to spread doom and gloom and bring people down. With the attitude you've had, you've continued to create your SP not being in your life and yourself being in 'unbearable pain' over it. Every minute of every day you have the choice of changing this or not, and until you see that, you're going to continue having the same experience of your SP being gone and being in 'unbearable pain' over it. Be bold. Step outside of your comfort zone. Throw caution to the wind. Don't be swayed by negative people who tell you it can't be done. It can be done, and you can do it, but you've got to believe it.
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