i have noticed that i get the things i want when im in the lowest mood, when i feel discouraged or depressed?
is that normal?

for example im currently doing the 25 day challenge of getting your ex back?
last sunday was day 15
i had a really rough day, i hated everything and starting questioning my whole career choices. cried alot and talked to my close friends. i already lost hope of getting back with my ex and i wasnt in any mood for visualization. when suddenly after almost a whole month of no contact my ex called!
he called asking for some help ( this happened for the first time) we are not back together yet and i havent heard from him since.

so my question is? do we usually manifest the things we want when we are depressed? when we have given up?