Cynthia wrote:

Adrita wrote:

fizzy wrote:

Don’t tell anyone you’re planning to attract him back with the LOA. Unless those people are like-minded, like we are on this forum, that often doesn’t go well and can set you back. You’re only going to continue to slow things down if you keep focusing on still being blocked, him moving on, etc. If you really quit social media, you wouldn’t even be noticing if you’re still blocked or not. I think right now you are doing things out of desperation, and you need to still just focus on yourself until you’re feeling better.

About being blocked, i just can see it on WhatsApp. About he is moving on... People are telling me without asking of course some days i feel desperate and even depressed. But there are many days, or mostly all day when I feel confident and secure. We work at the same place, we live really near. People around us is the same. Its Hard For me to stay focus because of the situation.

Im trying really Hard to be ok with my self, but my lifestyle Its no common at all, i travel all the time because of my work and he was my home...

It was the same with me. My mum was the only one who was supportive about my being with my SP, and she's dead and gone now. Don't listen to other people. Like fizzy said, don't talk to people about loa who aren't like minded. They will only tell you the same sort of things you've been told, and that will only interfere. If whatsapp is showing you things that aren't in your best interests to see, then just don't look. If you really want this SP, you've got to do whatever it takes to stay focussed on that and not be distracted by other people or social media or anything else that's going to give you negative messages about it. If you weren't struggling, you wouldn't keep asking for help. Help yourself more by avoiding these negative distractions as much as you possibly can and keep imagining having the ideal relationship you want with your SP as if you have it right now. The only thing that matters is what you believe, not what anybody else thinks or says about it. As Neville said in his lecture, Brazen Impudence, you are the only one who can keep you from having your desire by failing to persist in imagining it into creation. I'm paraphrasing because I can't remember his exact words, but that's what he was saying. 
 

Thank you Cynthia, i think you really can understand my pain, you gave me some peace with you response. I Will listen to Neville and start doing my Dream come true. I Will stop seeing reality... I Will ignore all that can Hurt me. Thank you

Last edited by Adrita (4/04/2018 2:21 pm)

Hi, all this days i've being working on myself. Using LOA and yesterday some friend call me to say to me that my love is decided no to be with me anymore. He's saying that to everyone around us ...he's saying that, For us that was the Last chance... And that he and looks happy and in peace.

Last edited by Adrita (4/10/2018 8:01 am)

fizzy wrote:

Adrita wrote:

Hi, all this days i've being working on myself. Using LOA and yesterday some friend call me to say to me that my love is decided no to be with me anymore. He's saying that to everyone around us ...he's saying that, For us that was the Last chance... And that he looser happy, and looks happy and in peace.

So? That doesn’t mean anything. Unless you give it meaning. You have to ignore current reality. Just because he said that, doesn’t mean you can’t get back together with him. It won’t happen though if this causes you to fall apart and stop what you’re doing. You need to be persistent and not pay any attention to what’s going on. I would also tell this friend that you don’t want anymore info about him.

Its Hard to ignore everybody, because without asking they're telling me. I do neville's revisions at night, to feel better and change it. What else can i do?

So... I've been struggling avoiding People, i have tried so Hard to think positive. And a few days ago i started reading neville. Today i felt really really positive, all day long i was living inn the end result... Sincerly i woke UP happy and felling that i am married to my love... And just a half hour ago... I found him right in front of me. I say hello and i ask him how is he.... And then i ask him For a coffee some day... His answer was so cold... He told me he not my friend, and that he is not thinking of be my boyfriend anymore and He doesn't want to take a coffee with me.... I told him that People are talking and he  got a little mad, after that.. I told him that i Know his not interested in go back in a Relationship with me, that i already knew that (i was just giving him the right to have a desition, but i dont think that is really going to happen). After that he told me god bye, and he say... We talk later, without even looking at me... I think its the first manifestación... Even if that was bittersweet and that he told me he doesn't want to be with me.... I think im on the right path... Am I right?

fizzy wrote:

Adrita wrote:

So... I've been struggling avoiding People, i have tried so Hard to think positive. And a few days ago i started reading neville. Today i felt really really positive, all day long i was living inn the end result... Sincerly i woke UP happy and felling that i am married to my love... And just a half hour ago... I found him right in front of me. I say hello and i ask him how is he.... And then i ask him For a coffee some day... His answer was so cold... He told me he not my friend, and that he is not thinking of be my boyfriend anymore and He doesn't want to take a coffee with me.... I told him that People are talking and he  got a little mad, after that.. I told him that i Know his not interested in go back in a Relationship with me, that i already knew that (i was just giving him the right to have a desition, but i dont think that is really going to happen). After that he told me god bye, and he say... We talk later, without even looking at me... I think its the first manifestación... Even if that was bittersweet and that he told me he doesn't want to be with me.... I think im on the right path... Am I right?

Yes, it sounds like you’re doing great Just stay in that mindset no matter what he says. You’ll manifest your desire.

Thank you!thank you! You Will be the first to Know the good news. Thank you For beeing so supportive.