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Back in contact but still feeling stuck
Hey everyone,
I’ve been able to manifest talking to my SP again. Nevertheless I feel like we’re kinda stuck there and not moving forward. We’ve been talking again for about a month, it’s almost daily but not very deep conversations most of the time. He texts me first more often then I do but it’s always just replies to my snapchat stories. He gave me hints that he misses me and never really stopped thinking about me so I’m sure he still has feelings for me and I know my SP so well that he would never stay in contact with an ex if he wouldn’t deep down see the possiblity to get back together (especially since we are long distance). I know that he has a lot of issues in his life lately and maybe just not the capacity of thinking about wether he wants to be back together or not so I am trying to stay calm and be grateful for everything happening so far. Just lately I feel impatient again and not really content with the situation and I feel like something inside of me is blocking us moving forward. I just don’t know what and I don’t know what to do to make us move forward. Has anyone ever been in this situation before and maybe has some advice?
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Re: Back in contact but still feeling stuck
It doesn't sound like you're living in the end in your imagination of having the relationship you want with this person as if you already have it right now. That's what you need to do to move it forward.
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Re: Back in contact but still feeling stuck
That's great that he's in contact with you. Can I ask what techniques you have been using pls?
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Re: Back in contact but still feeling stuck
Cynthia wrote:
It doesn't sound like you're living in the end in your imagination of having the relationship you want with this person as if you already have it right now. That's what you need to do to move it forward.
Thank you Cynthia! I will try working on that more. It‘s a little hard sometimes because whenever I am trying to be a little more open and living as if we’re back together while I’m texting with him, he kinda slams the reality back in my face that we are actually not even close to that. But I will try not to focus on that.
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That's great that he's in contact with you. Can I ask what techniques you have been using pls?
Well, I’ve been actually using a lot of different techniques. First of all I started working on myself which I think is most important. I went no contact and off social media for a month, did self love affirmations and meditations as much as I could and started to find out as much as I can about LOA. I found to resonate most with Veronica and Lanie, so I am doing a mix of the 25 day challenge and pw. I also used to do RS but slowed that down a little. I had great results with it, but I want him to be attracted emotionally and not only sexually. Also I have a little diary where I make gratitude lists, prescript and (if I have the time) revision my day.
I have to say tho I was the one making first contact, but I only did it because I felt 100 % like it was inspired action and that it would be okay, if I would not get a reply. I don’t know if it was the right decision or if I should‘ve given him and myself more time, so I‘m not sure if I would recommend it.
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