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Another question
Hello everyone!
Thank you so much for all your help so far. I know the questions I post often have similar themes but the replies that you all give me really do help me understand things better and expand my perspective.
I have been feeling better about my SP lately but I have seen him a couple of times with his current partner and I find it hard to ignore what I see sometimes. I know what I see on the surface doesn’t mean anything but it’s hard to see him with her when he’s got his arm around around her or is rubbing her shoulder. I made sure I continued to send him love even when I saw him in this situation, but it still is difficult to watch. How would you all overcome the doubts that pop up when something like this happens? I feel positive because I am attracting him into my experience but at the same time seeing aspects of his current relationship gives me some doubt sometimes.
- excalibar
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Re: Another question
Focus on self love. Meditate on being first best and desirable. Think of all the reasons that you two would make the best couple and focus on the joy. Perhaps see this time as a moment I time to really prepare yourself for this manifestation. You just don't want it to happen you wanted if but you really want this I be the best relationship ever. Practice (act as if) to help you for when you two get back together. Don't focus on the outside. Being fourth love for yourself and embody complete faith and trust that this will happen. You are the creator of your reality. I hope this helps! 💞
- fizzy
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I think what helps the most is to remember how reality works. It’s all an illusion, and you always get what you believe. You can’t NOT get what you believe. So always remember that you are in control and can change what you don’t like. Listening to teachers like Neville Goddard is helpful.
- Sanshi
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Re: Another question
fizzy wrote:
You can’t NOT get what you believe.
Love the double negative. 
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- fizzy
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You can’t NOT get what you believe.
Love the double negative.
Thanks 
- LotsOfLove
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Thanks everyone. I have been trying to think of this as a time to get my life together in the best way possible - eat better and be healthier, keep my house as I would if I was in the relationship, participate in activities I would want to continue while in the relationship, etc.
I’m also working on self love because that was a major contributing factor to our breakup. I didn’t love myself as I should have and ended up being kind of clingy and insecure.
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