Vera wrote:

Interesting scenario. The person who will succeed in this scenario is the one who will never give up on their desire. The universe is always right and always faithful. It delivers what you want, as long as you do your job. So, whoever...

- is the most focused on their desire
- has stronger faith in their desire coming true
- is in the highest vibrations most of the time
- with least resistance to the manifestation 
- has more room for 'allowing' their manifestations to come to them

.... will have more power to move things to work in their favor.

Rumi said, "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." 

Here are the barriers to love:

- lack of intention
- lack of faith (doubt in the outcome)
- low vibrations -- you have to level with LOVE, which is the highest vibration, in order to attract it to you)
- obsession / restlessness / stressing over your love -- all create resistance / slows down the manifestation

Hold only in your mind your desired outcome, your perfect romantic story, the perfect picture of the two of you together, how wonderful and amazing your life is, all the joy that you feel individually as well as together, and how happy your friends and families are for the two of you.

 In my experience, manifestations happens when we are in our highest vibrations with no resistance to the outcome (letting go).

Interesting and extremely useful post Vera! Thank you!

I think in that case the one with the highest vibration (strongest faith in the process, the least feelings of lack, etc) would overpower the other people's intentions and be the winner in this kind of situation.

This is an interesting question, but it's something I try not to think about.   Cause in my head I KNOW I'm going to get my girl back, and I know this may sound arrogant.  But I KNOW I'm the best guy for her.

Sam wrote:

Milk&Honey wrote:

I don't want to be negative, but I don't like this. This means that I 'll have to "win" every girl that is interested in him.

Then don't think about it at all. One of the things Abraham says is that stuff like this is "none of your business." Meaning, don't worry about it. It's the Universe's job to figure out the details. Think of it this way, if another girl is brought into his life that could be SPECIFICALLY for the purpose of making him realize he wants you! I had an ex once who started seeing someone a WEEK after we broke up, and then two months later when he came crying back to me, he told me that she did NOTHING but make him realize he wanted ME. The Universe knows what we want because we carry it in our hearts. Everything we want is already there waiting for us but we have to ALLOW ourselves to have it. So when those ugly details start to come into your mind, tell yourself that's none of your business, and refocus your attention on something else.

Thank you for your answer.  I was warrying really A LOT, I was SO SO SO afraid that he would find someone else, a specific type of woman. Well, it happened, exactly this. Then, I was afraid of the kind of relationship, and I heard these news. I didn't want to meet him, and then he moved out.

So, I guess... all these are my manifestations...? Even his relationship?

Milk&Honey wrote:

I don't want to be negative, but I don't like this. This means that I 'll have to "win" every girl that is interested in him.

 
I do not in any way mean "win" a girl, that's really negative thinking! I meant you get your manifestation when you're aligned.  It's yours to claim..... whether that's money, a relationship, a holiday,  new job,  new car,  stuff,  experiences,  adventures!  It's like a game show we are living in!! And you get to focus very deliberately.. And when you KNOW your answer, it's YOURS- whatever you want! That's not something I made up to suit me, it's a UNIVERSAL LAW 😊

And when you're in a higher vibration you will not be thinking in negative terms about this at all.  This is a universe that is completely unbiased and you are here to very deliberately create what you want. So you either join in the fun, or you create by default, which is what most people do.. And most people are not truly satisfied.