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Hi everyone,
Just looking to see if someone can maybe help give me a quick pick me up. I donβt have a lot of people in my life to discuss LoA and attracting my SP so you are my go-to people! π
What do you guys do when you get tired of waiting? I was doing really well, happy doing visualization and acting as if, basically just enjoying my life and imaging what it would be like to have my SP in my life. However I saw him over the weekend with his current partner and this just brought back how weβre not actually together and I donβt know if he even misses me.
I know this isnβt a good way to think but i start wondering - how long do I really have to wait for this?? Then I start wondering if it will ever happen and worry that Iβm wasting my time and should just give up.
Sorry for the sad vent, Iβm just feeling down and wanted to start. Hope you guys have some suggestions. I appreciate anything. π
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Time doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if they are with somebody else. I know somebody who wasn't practising loa and probably doesn't even know about it, and he had married somebody else because he had thought that the love of his life had somebody else. She didn't. She'd had a boyfriend for a while but it hadn't lasted. His marriage ended in divorce eventually. Then he had a girlfriend for 11 years but resisted marrying her. They broke up over that. Then, after 30 years or so, he reconnected with the love of his life, who had never had any boyfriend or anybody else in all of those years, and they got married in October 2017. I'm not saying it's going to take 30 years or anywhere near that, just that things can and do change, so it doesn't matter whether he's got another girlfriend or whatever she is right now. The only thing that matters is what is going on in your mind and what you are imagining into creation, so don't give up, unless you change your mind, of course. For all you know, your SP could break up with the other person today, tomorrow, next week or next month. I hadn't heard from my SP for 4 years and 4 months when he contacted me again. I hadn't been working on attracting him back all of that time, though. We've have a falling out since then, and I wasn't even sure if I wanted him in my life any more after that, but I decided I do, so I've been working on attracting him back. I'm not bothered about how long it takes. I manifested my marriage with my ex-husband just by imagining it long before I heard of Neville, so it does work, but unfortunately I left too many things to chance. If I knew then what I know now I could have changed things for the better.Β
Last edited by Cynthia (4/03/2018 9:10 am)
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Thank you Cynthia! That was such a good post to read.
I know deep down that I have to get over the present circumstances. He is married (he was separated and in the processing of getting a divorce when we were together then changed his mind due to various reasons). I know that I pushed him away at that time with my own thoughts and feelings. I guess sometimes itβs hard to stop thinking of things such as marriage, etc as absolutely permanent. Iβm not saying I want to break up his marriage, but I donβt think he is happy where is he and I know he left her before anyway...