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Question about staying positive
Hi everyone,
I have been working to stay positive and live as if I already have my specific person in my life but the last few times I have met him in person he has been a bit less than friendly. Anyway, I can picture us being together but then if I have a time that I see him and he doesn’t seem happy to see me I get down on myself. How do you stay positive in that type of situation? Should I try to avoid him for a little while and visualize him being happy to see me and allow those feelings to be in the forefront of my mind before I see him again?
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Thank you for your reply! I don’t have to see him but he works in a place that I would often frequent, so if I want to avoid him I can just stop going there for awhile. Otherwise I don’t see him very often.
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Thread Starter- excalibar
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Re: Question about staying positive
I agree so much! Send love to him as well and DON'T forget SELF LOVE!
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Thank you everyone! I think I will take some time and keep my distance a little bit, while still continuing with my visualizations and work on self love. I think I will wait to go into his workplace until I feel more calm and positive about the idea. 🙂
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Why do you even want to go there?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi wrote:
Why do you even want to go there?
It’s a fairly large retail establishment that I have always gone to regularly.
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Why do you even want to go there?
It’s a fairly large retail establishment that I have always gone to regularly.
Okay, I see. But make sure then to do it just because you want to go there without having any intentions about him or hopes about what could happen. That mostly ends in disappointment. And be honest to yourself about it. I know that from myself. I tell myself long enough that I do something just because I want to (while I have hopes about it going a certain way and fear that it won't go that way) and then I end up feeling down unnecessarily. Hasn't happen in a long while though, but it can happen easily, especially when another person is involved.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Why do you even want to go there?
It’s a fairly large retail establishment that I have always gone to regularly.Okay, I see. But make sure then to do it just because you want to go there without having any intentions about him or hopes about what could happen. That mostly ends in disappointment. And be honest to yourself about it. I know that from myself. I tell myself long enough that I do something just because I want to (while I have hopes about it going a certain way and fear that it won't go that way) and then I end up feeling down unnecessarily. Hasn't happen in a long while though, but it can happen easily, especially when another person is involved.
That makes a lot of sense. I guess often when I go there I have hopes of seeing him while I’m there and that can end in disappointment for me more often than not.
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So I ended up seeing my SP somewhere else yesterday (at a place he hasn’t gone in months). I feel like it was a positive thing that he came to this event but he was with his current significant other and he seemed like he was doing all he could do avoid me - he always had his back to me, etc etc. I have been doing a lot better lately with feeling good about myself and him, enjoying my visualizations, etc so I was kind of disappointed that he dodn’t respond more positively.
Any thoughts? I know I can’t read his mind and maybe he is feeling more attracted to me all the time and I just don’t see it yet, but it’s hard to feel like I’m doing so well with everything and then have this kind of reaction from him...
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