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Hi !
Me and my fiance had break up before 2 month which was called by him..We were in love since 1 and half year and than we got engaged with family's concerns before 2 months.How ever things been rocky since than .Basically I was being badly obsessed,needy and possessive of him which pushed him away.I begged apology from him but he is not ready to LOOK at me now.
We both work at same place and our senior staff knows about separation have to face him every day and his ignorance toward me too which is making things difficult for me to stay positive about our re-union.
We had best kinda fairy tale story and that man loved me like crazy and Its so difficult for me to bear him ignoring me and talking with other colleagues etc.I m using LOA ,staying positive and wish and pray to have my beloved back in my life.
Universe has been giving me lil signs also How ever him being in front of eyes everyday and seem no changes disappoints me.
What do I do with same ? I want him back I know I have pushed him back I know I can manifest him back too but feeling lil discouraged at a moment
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Hello Muslover,
Β I can feel you.Β you realized you pushed him away due to neediness, worries etc. Maybe, you think back to how you felt, acted and thought when he proposed to you. Try to be that person again. Also, do things for yourself and try to focus away from thinking of not having him. DONT obsess. Just try to be okay without him because it will never work until you can be happy on your own.
you can send mental messages to him ( positive ones) , he will feel the love you send and he will start missing you
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happygirl97 wrote:
Hello Muslover,
Β I can feel you.Β you realized you pushed him away due to neediness, worries etc. Maybe, you think back to how you felt, acted and thought when he proposed to you. Try to be that person again. Also, do things for yourself and try to focus away from thinking of not having him. DONT obsess. Just try to be okay without him because it will never work until you can be happy on your own.
you can send mental messages to him ( positive ones) , he will feel the love you send and he will start missing you
Dear happygirl97
Thanks a lot for your kind reply.Yes I do send him positive energy all while and the thing is I do not need to work hard to send him positivity him being genuinely so kind guy.He still called one of our collegue to ask weather I reached home safely or not post our break up.The thing which makes me extremely guilty is I never cared enough while he was so so so kind and loving and created this in my life.
Anyways as you said being okay with him not being there - Hardest thing I feel and face.I do try to be happy around him and at work place but the pain pings me hard at a time.