Adrita wrote:

So... I Blocked my love in WhatsApp, just to stop watching his conections... But.... I have his password of instagram, and i did it... And theres a girl Who is trying to have something with him and she already gave him her number... And they started to talk I Know i shouldnt see that... But i miss him so badly... And now I dont Know how to stop. Its beeing 2 months since i left his house and almoast 4 since the relationship has broken.... Im in a terrible place... I have really try to think positive, i've try to  stay calm and imagine us together beeing married and in peace... But right now... Im sad and a little crazy... I promesed to Myself never look again his instagram.... Im desperate... Is there a tecnique to feel better, and less guilty... And.... To bring him Back faster? Today Its a really bad day.i promise to be a god girl and to do everything to make al right to have him Back forever in my life. I love him so much...

Well you need to find the willpower within yourself to stop looking at his social media. None of what’s going on with him right now will prevent you from attracting him back. But, you’re letting it prevent you from doing the work to attract him back by looking at it. Every time you look at his social media and react to what you see, you are reinforcing the current reality. There is nothing that is going to “bring him back faster”. You need to focus on finding peace right now. Don’t look at what he’s doing and start focusing on other things. I know that’s not what someone in your position wants to hear, but it’s necessary or you won’t be in the right place to attract him back. Focus on yourself and doing what you can to feel better. Heal over the breakup. Then and only then can you attract him back successfully. You need to find your inner strength and willpower.

Adrita wrote:

I've always tought that if i try  to heal... I Will forget him... And i dont Know how to stop being sad and Hurt... And keep loving him, and to work properly LOA, I started my day by giving thanks, and after that i visualise us together and happy... And i keep thinking all  day long about him...and i work, and a do all my things... And his always in my mind. But sometimes, like today i have a lot of anxiety, and crazyness... And im really scared of being obssesive...  i truly believe in LOA , but how much is too much? How can i heal, and ignore current reality, and at the same time, atract him Back? There are many days where i Know in my heart that we are going to be together For the rest of our lives... And i cant wait For that to be my reality...and yes... I Will never look at his social media. Thank you For your answer, and For your time.

I would suggest not trying to do all that at once. If you truly desire to be with him, you won’t forget him when you heal. Through healing yourself, you are making yourself the best version of you to be in the relationship with him. You need to get past your hurt and negative feelings first and foremost. I would suggest doing self love meditations and anything you have to do to feel better and start feeling good about yourself. After you are in a much better place, you can attract him back and have a good relationship with him. I don’t suggest letting yourself think about him all day. Take your mind off of him and the situation for awhile and do other things throughout the day.

fizzy wrote:

Adrita wrote:

I've always tought that if i try  to heal... I Will forget him... And i dont Know how to stop being sad and Hurt... And keep loving him, and to work properly LOA, I started my day by giving thanks, and after that i visualise us together and happy... And i keep thinking all  day long about him...and i work, and a do all my things... And his always in my mind. But sometimes, like today i have a lot of anxiety, and crazyness... And im really scared of being obssesive...  i truly believe in LOA , but how much is too much? How can i heal, and ignore current reality, and at the same time, atract him Back? There are many days where i Know in my heart that we are going to be together For the rest of our lives... And i cant wait For that to be my reality...and yes... I Will never look at his social media. Thank you For your answer, and For your time.

I would suggest not trying to do all that at once. If you truly desire to be with him, you won’t forget him when you heal. Through healing yourself, you are making yourself the best version of you to be in the relationship with him. You need to get past your hurt and negative feelings first and foremost. I would suggest doing self love meditations and anything you have to do to feel better and start feeling good about yourself. After you are in a much better place, you can attract him back and have a good relationship with him. I don’t suggest letting yourself think about him all day. Take your mind off of him and the situation for awhile and do other things throughout the day.

Thank you so Much!

Adrita wrote:

Today My love just blocked me.... From WhatsApp, instagram... All social media.... Im so sad... He's far... Far away... And i've been se diga him love thoughts. 5 day ago i blocked him just to avoid seen his conections, and rey to stay focus on good things....i really dont Know what has just happened... Why he is reacting like this?

How did you know that he blocked you if you have given up looking at his social media? This is probably in response to you contacting him before. He clearly needs time away from you right now and you need to focus on yourself.

Adrita wrote:

I had the chat of WhatsApp, i wasnt able to erase it, and a saw the blank space instead of the picture. I just wanna look at his profile picture, and i search on instagram... Just to see his profile picture, because i erase him from my friend list days ago, to give him space.. And... Thats when i knew it. I supose its a normal reacting of the old days...but i felt like a punch in my heart. Right now, i dont Know what to do... So, i need some guidance...i can't  stop crying, and i felt guilty of blocking him first, even if my intentions where good... Maybe i Hurt him... Or he's mad, Or just decided to let me go For good.  Will you please, please help me?? I really want to fix it all, and share my life with this man.  Thank you fizzy, For beeing here Right now.

There is no need to be looking at his profile picture. You are staying very focused on current reality and because of that, nothing can change. It doesn’t matter why he blocked you, the message is loud and clear. He needs space from you. If you love him like you say, you will allow him this space. I’ve already told you what you need to do to get what you want. As soon as you take my advice, things will start moving in the direction you want. But until then, it’s all just going to stay the same.