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Oasiscalm wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
Oasiscalm wrote:
No one is attacking what works for you. Everyone has said it is good but there is more.
Maybe look at why practicing self love helped you manifest when you started adopting it.
What did it change in your underlying beliefs and you might find the answer what you are looking for.
Good luck to you and if u want to progress in life remember to stay open and remove tunnel vision from your viewpointI progress already don't be that way to me . No one else knows our life outside of this forum again I manifested a lot as you all can look up and can continue to.
I don't need a list of what you have manifested and I most definitely won't be looking it up.
All I know is that when I read back this thread all the good advice you were given you completely dismissed and simply tunnel visioned on what you didn't like or disagreed with.
Questions were asked for you to get some insight into how to get past your current block and you dismissed replying to those - to home in on that you disagree with living in the end or that you only need self love.
That is what I define as tunnel vision and when it is only focused on seeing what you disagree with it is not a fruitful ground to bring about manifestations.
But as I said good luck to u. Peace out xoxo
Never said I disagree with living in the end if you read it I have said I do that but it shouldn't the the soul thing. There really was some good advice from sanshi if you actually read it you would see I wrote that what I don't like is the condescending attitudes I get from some of you here . And again I progress just fine. All this thread was about was asking your opinions and then I got condescending attitudes for just disagreeing with you. I simply will not be on this forum as there really is no need for it anymore and I will keep manifesting as I have been. Just because you are getting this attitude from me doesn't mean I project this out to where I am I am simply responding to your condescending attitudes.
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Kiba101 wrote:
I personally was just giving my opinion and am a self love advocate myself. I found the tone of the conversation getting kind of negative and just decided to share my thoughts on the subject to boost the mood hahaha. There is no one way to gain belief. Self love is what I advocate but yes for some they might choose another path. Of course other things work itโs all about belief. My life is absolutely perfect and things manifest almost instantly now and that was through my own personal experience with self love. I donโt even have to try and manifest things just have aligned into this amazing life :D. So my point was we can get whatever we want out of life with self love, it isnโt limiting in the slightest. To address a block, one needs to gain belief and shift into a confident state and for me what worked was continuing to focus on self love and shifting my intent elsewhere to reduce neediness/lack
YES!! Agree 100%
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
Never said I disagree with living in the end if you read it I have said I do that but it shouldn't the the soul thing. There really was some good advice from sanshi if you actually read it you would see I wrote that what I don't like is the condescending attitudes I get from some of you here . And again I progress just fine. All this thread was about was asking your opinions and then I got condescending attitudes for just disagreeing with you. I simply will not be on this forum as there really is no need for it anymore and I will keep manifesting as I have been. Just because you are getting this attitude from me doesn't mean I project this out to where I am I am simply responding to your condescending attitudes.
Why even ask for advice though, if you want to only hear a certain type? People come to answer with good intentions, and they really believe that their responses will help you, and you are quick to get defensive and disagree. So how is that the appropriate response to someone trying to genuinely help you? Youโre only getting back something you first gave out, in my view.
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fizzy wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
Never said I disagree with living in the end if you read it I have said I do that but it shouldn't the the soul thing. There really was some good advice from sanshi if you actually read it you would see I wrote that what I don't like is the condescending attitudes I get from some of you here . And again I progress just fine. All this thread was about was asking your opinions and then I got condescending attitudes for just disagreeing with you. I simply will not be on this forum as there really is no need for it anymore and I will keep manifesting as I have been. Just because you are getting this attitude from me doesn't mean I project this out to where I am I am simply responding to your condescending attitudes.
Why even ask for advice though, if you want to only hear a certain type? People come to answer with good intentions, and they really believe that their responses will help you, and you are quick to get defensive and disagree. So how is that the appropriate response to someone trying to genuinely help you? Youโre only getting back something you first gave out, in my view.
How is your response to say why what you do doesn't work for me is I don't believe it does but yet you are allowed to disagree with me and I cannot you?
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
Oasiscalm wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
I progress already don't be that way to me . No one else knows our life outside of this forum again I manifested a lot as you all can look up and can continue to.I don't need a list of what you have manifested and I most definitely won't be looking it up.
All I know is that when I read back this thread all the good advice you were given you completely dismissed and simply tunnel visioned on what you didn't like or disagreed with.
Questions were asked for you to get some insight into how to get past your current block and you dismissed replying to those - to home in on that you disagree with living in the end or that you only need self love.
That is what I define as tunnel vision and when it is only focused on seeing what you disagree with it is not a fruitful ground to bring about manifestations.
But as I said good luck to u. Peace out xoxoNever said I disagree with living in the end if you read it I have said I do that but it shouldn't the the soul thing. There really was some good advice from sanshi if you actually read it you would see I wrote that what I don't like is the condescending attitudes I get from some of you here . And again I progress just fine. All this thread was about was asking your opinions and then I got condescending attitudes for just disagreeing with you. I simply will not be on this forum as there really is no need for it anymore and I will keep manifesting as I have been. Just because you are getting this attitude from me doesn't mean I project this out to where I am I am simply responding to your condescending attitudes.
Event. Reaction. Outcome.
Stay happy. Stay blessed.
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
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You asked for the reason why things doesn't work for you. I didn't read the full thread, because it didn't seem to become very productive at some point, but I notice a pattern here. I don't intend to attack you or anything. I just want to point out what I see and what I did myself in the past. So if you think it's worth thinking about, do it. If you think you should discard it without thinking about it, do that.
So, what I noticed (and I think it's pretty obvious to everyone who read this thread) is that you feel the need to defend your point of view. You feel attacked. Maybe a part of you want to convince others that you are right, maybe you just want to be aknowledged. Whatever it is, it is far from being unconditionally happy. I don't believe that you were happy in the moments you wrote some of your replies. And believe me, I was there myself. Even some random strangers from the forum affected my mood, I felt the need to defend myself, because I felt that they could somehow hurt me. I couldn't just walk away, because of pride, ego stuff or whatever. And when I reacted that way, I was far from being balanced and at peace. Back then, I thought I was happy, but it was a conditional happiness and it was based on my conditional thinking.
If you feel uneasy about posts, it's always your interpretation of it. I see people who try to help you and answer your question from their personal viewpoint. But you interpret something different, so your reaction is different than mine would be if it was my question. In my experience, it's really worth exploring all the stuff that's going on inside you and it also can lead you to your manifestation blocks. "Okay, right now, I feel attacked? What is it that makes me feel that way? Do I believe that other's opinions are more valid/worth than mine? Do I think others want to force their opinions on me and if yes, why do I think that way?" ... and so on. It can lead you to some pretty interesting beliefs you hold.Because y'all are condescending. Other then that happy.bur you want a reason that's a reason don't sit there and say I'm not happy cause my life outside of what's happening here is fine and as stated in the first post it was asking your opinion not saying I was wrong cause I don't believe I am: and as stated in the first post this not manifesting yet isn't causing me any extreme emotion
If you believe so. Good luck with this attitude. I am out. Don't have time to be condescending.
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
How is your response to say why what you do doesn't work for me is I don't believe it does but yet you are allowed to disagree with me and I cannot you?
......Isnโt that the general โLOA ruleโ? You get what you believe?
If I remember correctly, I also said what you โdoโ could work for me too, but doesnโt because of what I believe.
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You asked for help. Those of us who replied genuinely wanted to help. There has not been a single reply from anybody else that has been condescending. I don't know what it was you wanted, but it clearly wasn't help.
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Cynthia wrote:
I would like to add that I have been at some very low points in my life, feeling very depressed, and have manifested some good things, so you don't have to feel good or happy to manifest good things. It's just not true.
Hi, there! I was reading this forum and got a bit concerned with the negative tones in the conversation..
I just wanted to say that I am an advocate for self-love as well. I practice it everyday. It helps me a lot! And I think it's crucial for everyone else too But, I also agree that you don't need to feel 100% self-lovey dovey and happy in order to manifests great things. I would also like to add that I was able to also manifest $12,000 raise, free vacation trips and etc. (I posted a success story on this on the forum) all when I was feeling anxious and depressed after my separation with my partner. In fact, before I met my partner, I was already going through a tough time. I thought he didn't like me and I lost hope and was a bit sad. But then he ended up coming around and asked me to be his girlfriend! ย
Overall, I think we all would not want to provoke any further negative tones to this forum as it may make others feel negative too. I'd like to spread more positivity to everyone on this forum! I hope that we can be nice to each other and to not hold bad feelings against one another (not that there is any now, but as a general common ground) Anything is possible as long as you believe!! ย
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hopeful.h wrote:
]Overall, I think we all would not want to provoke any further negative tones to this forum as it may make others feel negative too. I'd like to spread more positivity to everyone on this forum! I hope that we can be nice to each other and to not hold bad feelings against one another ย
Lovely post and nice of you to try to spread a culture of unity and positivity.
I would also say I think that some presence of some moderators would also help keep on track