fizzy wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Just like my way could work for you then if that's what you believe you can't say you believe that everyone else what they do can work for me but not believe what I do cant work for everyone else which seems to be what you are implying . I disagree I do know what works for me I know how I'm feeling now and I don't feel you are understanding I have manifested a lot of stuff even my guy back recently. I have the belief I can have these things I think a lot of you misunderstand that . I don't think I can't it's just seeing it now. I disagree with a lot of what you are saying and it seems we are on different levels of loa understanding. I got what I needed thanks for everyone's opinions but please keep in mind if you don't want me to undermine what works for you please don't undermine what works for me and has cause of my desires I have gotten as proof since I started self love. Anyway thanks for the replies i got the info I wanted and what resonates with me and my beliefs and what I do

Yes, exactly. Your way COULD work for me and anyone else, IF I held the beliefs you do, but I don’t. Why? Because I find them limiting. But you understand what I’m saying when it comes to that.

And I find your beliefs to be very dependent on the outside . Which I disagree with. I feel with self love I believe I can have anything and everything is possible . That is not limiting to me because I feel that I can have it. There for the belief it can be mine and the belief I already have it is living in the end bt because of my self love and all that I m at peace and happy already I'm not reliant on the thing I want . That is being attached to the outcome which to me is not something that helps manifesting. You believe it is yours and then live life which is currently what I do. But I'm not gonna change what works for you but please do not knock my way just because you have your belief. Let me have mine. I've manifested a lot of stuff from this so the only reason this isn't happening now is because there is something missing or a block I may not have removed yet

fizzy wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

And I find your beliefs to be very dependent on the outside . Which I disagree with. I feel with self love I believe I can have anything and everything is possible . That is not limiting to me because I feel that I can have it. There for the belief it can be mine and the belief I already have it is living in the end bt because of my self love and all that I m at peace and happy already I'm not reliant on the thing I want . That is being attached to the outcome which to me is not something that helps manifesting. You believe it is yours and then live life which is currently what I do. But I'm not gonna change what works for you but please do not knock my way just because you have your belief. Let me have mine. I've manifested a lot of stuff from this so the only reason this isn't happening now is because there is something missing or a block I may not have removed yet

Outside of what? There is no outside. Everything is you and your creation. That’s what I believe, so you see I’m never dependent on something outside of me. I’m not knocking your way.

You believe your way I ll believe mine. Like I said I manifested a lot from the way I started doing back in September. When I stopped and did what you suggested I never manifested a thing. But you believe yours and I ll do mine . I'm not dependent on the circumstances to make me happy.

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fizzy wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

I'm not dependent on the circumstances to make me happy.

Same here. If I was, I wouldn’t manifest what I want.

But you do what works for you and I ll do what works for me. The reason these things work for us because they put us in alignment we feel good doing them they raise our beliefs . It's different for everyone

Oasiscalm wrote:

I am confused, why would you ask opinions of a forum then rebute all advice/points of views/ opnions so vehemently. It seems like you aren't actually reading and absorbing the posts as they are written - because u are simply rebuffing any statement about self love.

No one has said there is a problem with self love. No one stated give up self love.

The others posters and myself are discussing how to bring about the manifestation you asked for help about.

You are manifesting all day every day. Your life unfolds daily regardless of your emotion state. Negativity only blocks manifesting if you are negative about the desire.

Your focus on self love is limiting you from fully understanding the process of manifesting. Self love is your gift to yourself - dont try to turn it into some golden key to manifesting things into your life because that's not what self love is about.

As I said Manifesting is simple.

For the last month I have been thinking I need a new phone. I even went online to buy one and then shut the browser down to do something else and forgot about it. Two days later I was gifted a brand new phone - exact model and colour as I wanted. Had I visualised NO. Did I do any processes to bring about the phone - NO. I just desired a phone and as Paulo Coelho would say "the universe conspired to bring it to me"

Go back basics. Drop the buzzwords and buzz phrases. Get out of your own head and your own way and just allow things to flow to you.

People take what resonates with them and I can disagree with other opinions as they can mine.  That's the beauty of knowing that we can pick what resonates with us and works for us. I don't think anyone here can doubt my success as I have manifested a lot because I know what works for me. People can tell me advice and I can pick what I would like and what works for me. Just like anyone else I comment on can do the same. Sometimes some personalities are so strong and sometimes y'all can come off a bit more like my way or the high way. But you guys do what you want I picked what works for me and that's that. My self love and all that has helped manifest wha to wanted without it I would be that same girl you saw a year ago trying to manifest her ex back. So I attribute that just like Agnes does to be the foundation of manifesting

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fizzy wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

People take what resonates with them and I can disagree with other opinions as they can mine.  That's the beauty of knowing that we can pick what resonates with us and works for us. I don't think anyone here can doubt my success as I have manifested a lot because I know what works for me. People can tell me advice and I can pick what I would like and what works for me. Just like anyone else I comment on can do the same. Sometimes some personalities are so strong and sometimes y'all can come off a bit more like my way or the high way. But you guys do what you want I picked what works for me and that's that. My self love and all that has helped manifest wha to wanted without it I would be that same girl you saw a year ago trying to manifest her ex back. So I attribute that just like Agnes does to be the foundation of manifesting

You come off a bit defensive as soon as someone responds with something that doesn’t contain the phrase “self love”.

Because a lot of my manifesting happened once I did that and it was actually because I wasn't attached because I was so focused on myself and feeling good. Again alof of you want me to accept what works for you but keep attacking what works for me so I think this topic is over now. Also Agnes saids it is the golden key the foundation . It removes a lot of blocks and you are so focused on you that you let go. I agree. So please I really want this topic closed now as a lot of you just don't like that I focus on that. Self love has opened so many doors and if you don't believe that that is you don't harp on me because it's my belief. I manifested my guy back and y'all remember it took 3 years. And what changed? I loved myself and got a better relationship. I also manifested a better job etc. because I loved myself I felt worthy. Again that's me . End this topic as you are apparently trying to change my beliefs but do not expect me to do the same. Honor each other's beliefs do what works for you and let me take what resonates with me

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