1 of 1- PrettyFlamingo
- Electrified
Offline 
- From: God's Own County
- Registered: 4/22/2016
- Posts: 1,867
Attracting what you are /like attracting like
I'm not sure which area to write this actually. I've got a friend who's a bit - perhaps a lot - unsettled. She's got herself into some debt but she's dealing with that. She's not in a settled relationship and would really like to be. There's someone she sees each day who she likes. She's also overweight. She's a friendly intelligent and fun person. She's got some idea though that she doesn't have the right to pursue a relationship because of her money situation and weight as it wouldn't be fair to inflict that on a guy.
I'm finding it difficult to advise her. She's also starting Weight Watchers. She thinks you attract what you are so all she's going to get is a fat man with debts! I think that isn't true but can't give her more concrete advice as I'm no example when it comes to love!
What are your feelings? I'd love to help her.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- Cynthia
- Lightning Bolt
Offline
- Registered: 5/24/2017
- Posts: 1,322
Re: Attracting what you are /like attracting like
If you wanted to, and this works because I've done it for somebody else, although not for these reasons so in a different way, as Neville explained you could imagine your friend having lost the weight, being out of debt, and being happy in a loving relationship with somebody the same as you could do for yourself for whatever your desire is. Otherwise, she's going to have to change her thinking about these things and start imagining 'living from the end of the wish fulfilled' as if she had her desires already. To help her change her thinking, you could do the same thing as I mentioned before - imagine her having done that and having this work for her.
Last edited by Cynthia (3/17/2018 4:40 pm)
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
- Sanshi
- Top Cat
Offline
- Registered: 12/13/2015
- Posts: 2,617
Re: Attracting what you are /like attracting like
Shouldn't she expect to attract a fat woman with debts with her logic? It's true that you get what you are, but in a different sense. If you are someone who is secure about their weight and don't worry about anybody caring about it then you will get the reflection of it by finding a partner who doesn't care about your weight. If you are insecure about your weight, believe that you will still find a partner, but one who puts you down for your weight - that's what you will get. It's always what you feel to be true. You are what you feel to be true and you get what you feel to be true.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com