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Re: He is on date application
Laura1234 wrote:
He is on badoo
I really hate this aplication. I hate all date aplications. IF I was on this aplication so I see so many boys in relationships and they was there..why?? I really disgusted. dont know how I will believe someone when every boy go on date pages even thought they have a girlfriend.Im sad about this stupid new age..and I dont know why he registered too. Ok He is my ex but why.. he is boring whe he is another country cause he work there so he want he just text with girls, want he a new girl?? I love him so much and I was understanted him and support him and he was talk me about his negative past life etc.He can trusted me . and he rather will alone and text and flirt with others.... ok sometimes probably I think what if he will on this apliccation but I didnt wanted believe in it. Long time I think just positive thoughts about him and he had a better behavior to me and when I call him hang out so he always go and he oesnt ignore me but its all. He doesnt call me hang out first and when we werent hang out , so we dont text and we are not friends on social pages noting.
I really wanted do inner work but I dont know change my beliefs that this age is horiblle and every man is on date pages even thought are in relationships... I want a reality where he will as he was when I meet him and I want a relationship where man dont will on any dating page and he doesnt will give stupid like on pictures other girls... yes Im in negative mood and vibrations..
I am among the group with the view that you don’t need self love to manifest a relationship with someone. It’s all about what you believe. But you do need to feel worthy of the relationship with him, and having high self esteem will help you to have the beliefs that will keep the two of you together. Stop worrying about current reality. If you don’t feel worthy of a relationship with him then work on feeling like you are. Otherwise just live like you have the relationship now until it solidifies into a belief. Worrying about him being on a dating app isn’t going to get you the reality you want.
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Re: He is on date application
I'm just going to be as blunt as I can here and try not to repeat what the others in this thread have said, that advice is good too.
At the moment it seems you're stuck in a desperate state, you won't get anywhere like that. You need to work on being happy without having a man in your life. You're not happy right now as it is, so why torment yourself further. You need to find things that bring you joy that doesn't revolve around him. Go for a walk, drink a cup of coffee, read a good book, anything that keeps you busy.
As for the dating websites, they honestly are not a big deal. People use them often enough, it doesn't mean something will come of it. I've even been on Tinder once, deleted it soon after mind you but I wasn't there on the hunt for sex. Just got curious.
As OasisCalm said, a forum shouldn't be your only source of information, while there is honestly some really good information on here, we aren't always going to agree or something a user says might not resonate with another. There are so many LOA books and videos you can get into and learn more information from those sources.
Right now, you're not in a position for a relationship. If this guy was behaving this way towards you, it would put you off the person.
Focus on yourself, study LOA and once you're in a good place come back and practice all you know.
I hope you find peace soon, it's horrible feeling this way but it's not worth sticking in this place.
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Re: He is on date application
I was write that I want be with him but how I can change my beliefs that when we will together so he dont will on this page and why I manifest he is on this page now when I was believed that even tought He is single he doesnt need be on this pages and chat with other girls.... other understand why I write this post and they give me advices and words who I need..
You want to be with this guy but want to change your beliefs that when you are in a relationship with him he will avoid dating sites and applications. Have I got that correct?
You ask how you manifested him using them now when he is single and you think he doesn't need to use such things. These apps and sites never have and never will be for me. This has nothing to do with being in my thirties. I wouldn't use them if I were 18. I was on a student focus group last week to discuss this (I'm a lecturer) and every person in the group used them without exception. They felt peer pressure to use them as all their friends did. They said they had hardly ever met anyone in real life that they "spoke" to. One girl had a relationship with a guy she met on Tinder that she referred to as long term. In actual fact it was 4 months.
I really wouldn't take it seriously and don't think you manifested him using apps etc, it was his choice.
All this said I personally would not have a relationship with a guy who is on apps or dating sites.
I completely agree with you about dating apps. They're not for me either, and I wouldn't use them no matter what age I was. They and various other social media sites are not real life. As you said, people rarely meet each other or communicate in a meaningful way. I was recently forced to join facebook because the only way I could get technical support for something I've been doing was in a private group there, and I just hate everything about it. It is just such an unproductive waste of time. It might be a distraction or something to do when you're ill in bed as I've been lately, but I would rather do just about anything else. Unless people know each other already, most if not all of them are going to remain strangers with no real relationship. What is the point of having a list of strangers liking your comment or commenting on some photo or comment you've made? It's the falseness of this all that bothers me the most. It's a fantasy world. Those many facebook 'friends' they might have are not friends at all. If they bumped into each other on the street, they wouldn't recognise each other, especially since many people don't even have a photo of themselves on there, and if they needed a genuine friend to help them in some way, none of those people would be there for them. I do not know why they don't make an effort to make some real friends in the real world with whom they can have genuine relationships with real communication.
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Re: He is on date application
He is on badoo
I really wanted do inner work but I dont know change my beliefs that this age is horiblle and every man is on date pages even thought are in relationships... I want a reality where he will as he was when I meet him and I want a relationship where man dont will on any dating page and he doesnt will give stupid like on pictures other girls... yes Im in negative mood and vibrations..I am among the group with the view that you don’t need self love to manifest a relationship with someone. It’s all about what you believe. But you do need to feel worthy of the relationship with him, and having high self esteem will help you to have the beliefs that will keep the two of you together. Stop worrying about current reality. If you don’t feel worthy of a relationship with him then work on feeling like you are. Otherwise just live like you have the relationship now until it solidifies into a belief. Worrying about him being on a dating app isn’t going to get you the reality you want.
I am in that same group with you. My most successful manifestations have happened when I've been absolutely neutral. I never even thought about anything but the end result I wanted, and I got it, and in a short time, sometimes the same day or within a week. I didn't stop to ask myself, do I love myself enough or do I feel worthy enough? I just did it.
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Re: He is on date application
I'm just going to be as blunt as I can here and try not to repeat what the others in this thread have said, that advice is good too.
At the moment it seems you're stuck in a desperate state, you won't get anywhere like that. You need to work on being happy without having a man in your life. You're not happy right now as it is, so why torment yourself further. You need to find things that bring you joy that doesn't revolve around him. Go for a walk, drink a cup of coffee, read a good book, anything that keeps you busy.
As for the dating websites, they honestly are not a big deal. People use them often enough, it doesn't mean something will come of it. I've even been on Tinder once, deleted it soon after mind you but I wasn't there on the hunt for sex. Just got curious.
As OasisCalm said, a forum shouldn't be your only source of information, while there is honestly some really good information on here, we aren't always going to agree or something a user says might not resonate with another. There are so many LOA books and videos you can get into and learn more information from those sources.
Right now, you're not in a position for a relationship. If this guy was behaving this way towards you, it would put you off the person.
Focus on yourself, study LOA and once you're in a good place come back and practice all you know.
I hope you find peace soon, it's horrible feeling this way but it's not worth sticking in this place.
Thank you. But I can do all these things,(coffe, book, party etc ) but I know that if I will focus on yourself, so I cant focus on him never more and imagine something with him , because even thought I will start focus on yourself and feel calm and happy alone , so when I will start imagine a things with him in happy state, so I will sad and desperate again.. So I think that the best way for me is try forget about him and I think that this will for me, the only one way how get him back.. maybe..
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Re: He is on date application
He is on badoo
I really wanted do inner work but I dont know change my beliefs that this age is horiblle and every man is on date pages even thought are in relationships... I want a reality where he will as he was when I meet him and I want a relationship where man dont will on any dating page and he doesnt will give stupid like on pictures other girls... yes Im in negative mood and vibrations..I am among the group with the view that you don’t need self love to manifest a relationship with someone. It’s all about what you believe. But you do need to feel worthy of the relationship with him, and having high self esteem will help you to have the beliefs that will keep the two of you together. Stop worrying about current reality. If you don’t feel worthy of a relationship with him then work on feeling like you are. Otherwise just live like you have the relationship now until it solidifies into a belief. Worrying about him being on a dating app isn’t going to get you the reality you want.
Thank you
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Re: He is on date application
You should always focus on yourself. It doesn't mean you can't think about the guy but you should always be the priority. What makes you you, what makes you happy? Do those things. And take care when you think about him. Not obsessive.
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Re: He is on date application
He is on badoo
I really wanted do inner work but I dont know change my beliefs that this age is horiblle and every man is on date pages even thought are in relationships... I want a reality where he will as he was when I meet him and I want a relationship where man dont will on any dating page and he doesnt will give stupid like on pictures other girls... yes Im in negative mood and vibrations..I am among the group with the view that you don’t need self love to manifest a relationship with someone. It’s all about what you believe. But you do need to feel worthy of the relationship with him, and having high self esteem will help you to have the beliefs that will keep the two of you together. Stop worrying about current reality. If you don’t feel worthy of a relationship with him then work on feeling like you are. Otherwise just live like you have the relationship now until it solidifies into a belief. Worrying about him being on a dating app isn’t going to get you the reality you want.
I am in that same group with you. My most successful manifestations have happened when I've been absolutely neutral. I never even thought about anything but the end result I wanted, and I got it, and in a short time, sometimes the same day or within a week. I didn't stop to ask myself, do I love myself enough or do I feel worthy enough? I just did it.
I have a succes manifestation too and I didnt feel happy, I attracted texts from him many times and I just only repeat my imagination that he will text me, but in few last mothns I dont know manifest nothing and I imagine things the same way
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Re: He is on date application
I am among the group with the view that you don’t need self love to manifest a relationship with someone. It’s all about what you believe. But you do need to feel worthy of the relationship with him, and having high self esteem will help you to have the beliefs that will keep the two of you together. Stop worrying about current reality. If you don’t feel worthy of a relationship with him then work on feeling like you are. Otherwise just live like you have the relationship now until it solidifies into a belief. Worrying about him being on a dating app isn’t going to get you the reality you want.I am in that same group with you. My most successful manifestations have happened when I've been absolutely neutral. I never even thought about anything but the end result I wanted, and I got it, and in a short time, sometimes the same day or within a week. I didn't stop to ask myself, do I love myself enough or do I feel worthy enough? I just did it.
I have a succes manifestation too and I didnt feel happy, I attracted texts from him many times and I just only repeat my imagination that he will text me, but in few last mothns I dont know manifest nothing and I imagine things the same way
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