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And I want how I change all my negative beliefs but I see that on this question I neever giet answer
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Laura1234 wrote:
Sorry that I didn't get you right. I only speak German, English, a little bit French and Japanese. I don't exactly know what language you use in your posts, so I better shut up and let the people reply who are better in getting what you mean with your broken English. I am out.Wow Sanshi I'm impressed by your multiple language skills.
Unfortunately I think if u spoke every language in the world fluent you wouldn't be saying what Laura wants to hear.
? I wanted advices how change this my situation So I dont know why is So hard understand this.. and advice that he is single and he can do what he want o and he simply doesnt want a relationship with me is not loa advice but advice people who dont know loa ..when I need heard this words So I dont need go on this forum... so thanks that we have fun from me..
Personally I don't think you should be seeking LOA advice on manifesting anyone right now.
The simple fact that you can state you can't be happy if you are single or not with a boy - says it all.
You mindset is that of neediness and desperation. Leave this boy alone for a while and get some inner security
Take a step back and work on yourself. Stop throwing tantrums and getting frustrated with others and focus inwards.
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And I want how I change all my negative beliefs but I see that on this question I neever give answer
I've told you working on self love. To me it's a foundation . Treating yourself like you would treat the people you love cause you should love yourself. Affirmations. You can do visualizing to help etc. this doesn't change over night and you actually have to commit to it not expect t to change after one time and get upset. Actually focus on those things and self talk and affirmations even when you don't see what you want yet but it seems you want a short cut. There is none do that work and you will see results
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Wow Sanshi I'm impressed by your multiple language skills.
Unfortunately I think if u spoke every language in the world fluent you wouldn't be saying what Laura wants to hear.
? I wanted advices how change this my situation So I dont know why is So hard understand this.. and advice that he is single and he can do what he want o and he simply doesnt want a relationship with me is not loa advice but advice people who dont know loa ..when I need heard this words So I dont need go on this forum... so thanks that we have fun from me..Personally I don't think you should be seeking LOA advice on manifesting anyone right now.
The simple fact that you can state you can't be happy if you are single or not with a boy - says it all.
You mindset is that of neediness and desperation. Leave this boy alone for a while and get some inner security
Take a step back and work on yourself. Stop throwing tantrums and getting frustrated with others and focus inwards.
So agree!!! I use to hate being told to take time off but it does wonders and redirects your focus on what's important . YOU
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What you have written is rather hard to understand, but I don't think there is any reason for certain people to attack you about it. English is obviously not your native language, but you are probably doing the best you can.
You say you want to use LOA, but you are too focussed on what is going on in the outer world, perhaps even obsessed with it. As with anything, you have to create the change within yourself for your outer world to change. As with anything you desire, to do this you imagine it as though it were already true and you already have it until this becomes a fact in the outer world, but whilst you are doing this, as difficult as it may be, you must ignore the current reality, which includes not checking dating sites or various social media or obsessing over what the person is or isn't doing or feeling all sorts of negativity toward him because doing that will keep away what you want, as will any sort of desperation.
And call me old fashioned if you want to, but as far as I'm concerned, single means unmarried.
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Maybe I cant want some advices because everybody have different advices. Some peoople tell me I have To focus only on yourself and selflove and sanshi in her another post wrote that selflove and be in happy state doesnt mean that we manifest something... so how it is.. and why is some poeple so surprised that I still dont have gpod results, when I was think that I have To focus on yourself and later I was read that it doesnt mean that I manifest my desires.. maybe I was happier when I didnt know loa because when I dont know loa so I would hate him and I would believed that he is cause my pain and I dont create this version and move on and he would be back as every ex in liifes other people who dont know loa.. they want forget to them and they feel pain and later their exes text out of blue and want another chance. since I know loa I dont know move on and focus on yourself because I know that I can have him back very fast and I know that another reality Im already with him, so I feel desperate because I want be in this desire reality too. .and when I have a negative mood like now so I want focus on yourself and move on and stop stalk him , but later I remember on superman game and I know that I can be with him in 30 days so Im again focus on him and imagined his with me...
Or not I wouldn be hate him because I love him but when I dont know loa I would believed that his negative childhood is cause his behavior..
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Maybe I cant want some advices because everybody have different advices. Some peoople tell me I have To focus only on yourself and selflove and sanshi in her another post wrote that selflove and be in happy state doesnt mean that we manifest something... so how it is.. and why is some poeple so surprised that I still dont have gpod results, when I was think that I have To focus on yourself and later I was read that it doesnt mean that I manifest my desires.. maybe I was happier when I didnt know loa because when I dont know loa so I would hate him and I would believed that he is cause my pain and I dont create this version and move on and he would be back as every ex in liifes other people who dont know loa.. they want forget to them and they feel pain and later their exes text out of blue and want another chance. since I know loa I dont know move on and focus on yourself because I know that I can have him back very fast and I know that another reality Im already with him, so I feel desperate because I want be in this desire reality too. .and when I have a negative mood like now so I want focus on yourself and move on and stop stalk him , but later I remember on superman game and I know that I can be with him in 30 days so Im again focus on him and imagined his with me...
Or not I wouldn be hate him because I love him but when I dont know loa I would believed that his negative childhood is cause his behavior..
A forum can not be your only source of information
Read some books, watch videos and get a grasp on what it is that you are working with
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Maybe I cant want some advices because everybody have different advices. Some peoople tell me I have To focus only on yourself and selflove and sanshi in her another post wrote that selflove and be in happy state doesnt mean that we manifest something... so how it is.. and why is some poeple so surprised that I still dont have gpod results, when I was think that I have To focus on yourself and later I was read that it doesnt mean that I manifest my desires.. maybe I was happier when I didnt know loa because when I dont know loa so I would hate him and I would believed that he is cause my pain and I dont create this version and move on and he would be back as every ex in liifes other people who dont know loa.. they want forget to them and they feel pain and later their exes text out of blue and want another chance. since I know loa I dont know move on and focus on yourself because I know that I can have him back very fast and I know that another reality Im already with him, so I feel desperate because I want be in this desire reality too. .and when I have a negative mood like now so I want focus on yourself and move on and stop stalk him , but later I remember on superman game and I know that I can be with him in 30 days so Im again focus on him and imagined his with me...
Or not I wouldn be hate him because I love him but when I dont know loa I would believed that his negative childhood is cause his behavior..
The main reasons why people tell you to love yourself when you are trying to attract a certain person is because you have to feel good about yourself and feel worthy and deserving of having what you want and like a whole person by yourself and also because it is more about giving than getting, meaning that the other person can feel if you want them to love you because they need to give you the love you aren't giving yourself, and that could keep them away because it's not their job to love you, and a needy, clingy person is so draining to be around. It needs to be a healthy, mutual love, not one person doing all of the giving and the other doing all of the taking, or it is not going to work out very well.
Loving yourself can bring you good things, but in my experience, those have been general good things, not specific ones. You still have to know what it is that you specifically want, and then imagine it as I mentioned previously.
If you already love yourself and feel worthy, etc., then imagine living in the end of the wish fulfilled as mentioned above.
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And I agree with Oasiscalm about reading books, etc. I have read many by different authors. My favourite is Neville Goddard, and there are also many of his lectures on youtube, but what he says and writes is not fluff and may be difficult for a non-native English speaker to understand. I know some native English speakers who don't have a clue what he's talking about. The first book I ever read by Claude Bristol, The Magic of Believing, is a lot more approachable. So is his other book, TNT The Power Within You. The Power of Your Subsconscious Mind by Dr Joseph Murphy is another good one.
A forum like this contains many opinions from many different people, and that's the problem - opinions are just that. It can be like the blind leading the blind with a lot of misinformation and conflicting advice, however well meaning it might be, so it's really better to study and learn from people who really do know what they are talking about and know from their own experiences, such as Neville and the others I mentioned.
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I was write that I want be with him but how I can change my beliefs that when we will together so he dont will on this page and why I manifest he is on this page now when I was believed that even tought He is single he doesnt need be on this pages and chat with other girls.... other understand why I write this post and they give me advices and words who I need..
You want to be with this guy but want to change your beliefs that when you are in a relationship with him he will avoid dating sites and applications. Have I got that correct?
You ask how you manifested him using them now when he is single and you think he doesn't need to use such things. These apps and sites never have and never will be for me. This has nothing to do with being in my thirties. I wouldn't use them if I were 18. I was on a student focus group last week to discuss this (I'm a lecturer) and every person in the group used them without exception. They felt peer pressure to use them as all their friends did. They said they had hardly ever met anyone in real life that they "spoke" to. One girl had a relationship with a guy she met on Tinder that she referred to as long term. In actual fact it was 4 months.
I really wouldn't take it seriously and don't think you manifested him using apps etc, it was his choice.
All this said I personally would not have a relationship with a guy who is on apps or dating sites.
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