1 - Laura1234
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He is on date application
He is on badoo
I really hate this aplication. I hate all date aplications. IF I was on this aplication so I see so many boys in relationships and they was there..why?? I really disgusted. dont know how I will believe someone when every boy go on date pages even thought they have a girlfriend.Im sad about this stupid new age..and I dont know why he registered too. Ok He is my ex but why.. he is boring whe he is another country cause he work there so he want he just text with girls, want he a new girl?? I love him so much and I was understanted him and support him and he was talk me about his negative past life etc.He can trusted me . and he rather will alone and text and flirt with others.... ok sometimes probably I think what if he will on this apliccation but I didnt wanted believe in it. Long time I think just positive thoughts about him and he had a better behavior to me and when I call him hang out so he always go and he oesnt ignore me but its all. He doesnt call me hang out first and when we werent hang out , so we dont text and we are not friends on social pages noting.
I really wanted do inner work but I dont know change my beliefs that this age is horiblle and every man is on date pages even thought are in relationships... I want a reality where he will as he was when I meet him and I want a relationship where man dont will on any dating page and he doesnt will give stupid like on pictures other girls... yes Im in negative mood and vibrations..
- Selfloveiskey
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Re: He is on date application
Stop focusing on the outside. This doesn't mean anything. You are being too reliant on him. Focus on you because you deserve to feel good do not focus on him and what he is doing. Things can change. But you shouldn't focus on your or changing your belief strictly for him and expect instant results. Doesn't work that way. You need to focus on feeling good and affirm to yourself that it just can take time the universe has your order.i really want you to take him off the pedestal and put yourself on it. It's really attractive when we focus on us. Annnnnd of most importantly feels good to us.why should we wait to be happy? People are attracted to us when we are in a good relaxed state and really that part is just the icing on the cake. If I had a nickel for every time my guy was on a dating app , saying it wouldn't happen , etc I would be rich. It happened every time because I got myself in a good vibe by taking the focus off him and putting it on me. I put myself first. From that point I didn't feel the need to do visualizing as much or any techniques.i only did them when I felt happy and relaxed . You can't do them when you feel desperate. It all fell into place when I did that. I only lost him cause I stoped doing that and things
- Sanshi
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You create those experiences of men. That's what you put out. So it isn't that he is a horrible guy or that all guys are horrible or that we live in a crappy time. You are the creator of your reality and your first step should be to acknowledge that and take responsibility for what you experience.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Laura1234
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Re: He is on date application
But why if I think good about him and I was think he doesnt need this application and other girls even though he doesnt have a relationship and my friend told me this same words and she think about him good things too so he is on this application?
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Thread Starter- Selfloveiskey
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Laura1234 wrote:
But why if I think good about him and I was think he doesnt need this application and other girls even though he doesnt have a relationship and my friend told me this same words and she think about him good things too so he is on this application?
Because you are desperate. Because you have that fear. Think good thoughts all day long but if you are feeling negative fear etc you attract what you are. Takes time to change it. So yeah you manifested it that way. Again focus should be you not him. You create but you need to focus on getting yourself happy and relaxed and focus on the end result of what you want . That's if
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But why if I think good about him and I was think he doesnt need this application and other girls even though he doesnt have a relationship and my friend told me this same words and she think about him good things too so he is on this application?
So you thought that he doesn't need it? And that's thinking good of him? So the idea of him being there was on your mind. For me, thinking good of someone means not even considering it. I mean, I don't walk around and think "I know that my mother won't ever kill someone". That would be pretty strange and it would mean that the picture of her doing it is somewhere in the depth of my mind.
And it's not what you think about him, but what you feel. And if you would feel that he is a honest good guy, you wouldn't jump to conclusions but keep your faith in what you know about him.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Laura1234
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Re: He is on date application
Stop focusing on the outside. This doesn't mean anything. You are being too reliant on him. Focus on you because you deserve to feel good do not focus on him and what he is doing. Things can change. But you shouldn't focus on your or changing your belief strictly for him and expect instant results. Doesn't work that way. You need to focus on feeling good and affirm to yourself that it just can take time the universe has your order.i really want you to take him off the pedestal and put yourself on it. It's really attractive when we focus on us. Annnnnd of most importantly feels good to us.why should we wait to be happy? People are attracted to us when we are in a good relaxed state and really that part is just the icing on the cake. If I had a nickel for every time my guy was on a dating app , saying it wouldn't happen , etc I would be rich. It happened every time because I got myself in a good vibe by taking the focus off him and putting it on me. I put myself first. From that point I didn't feel the need to do visualizing as much or any techniques.i only did them when I felt happy and relaxed . You can't do them when you feel desperate. It all fell into place when I did that. I only lost him cause I stoped doing that and things
But I dont know be totally happy without him. I never dont know happy without boy. Maybe on short time but later I miss him again and I cry..and I really think good things about him so I dont understand why I attract he is on dating page .. and I dont agree that people are attracted when we are in good state. Because when I meet him first time I didnt in good state. I was in similar state like this because I felt similar cause my past ex. And when I was meet this current ex so I maybe was funny and confidence outside , and he wanted me so much because I wasnt obssesion him becsuse I was still love past ex, but inside I was so sad. I remember when I first time meet this current ex in the bar so I went in the bar in really sad mood and I had a very bad sad season..
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Thread Starter- Laura1234
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Re: He is on date application
But why if I think good about him and I was think he doesnt need this application and other girls even though he doesnt have a relationship and my friend told me this same words and she think about him good things too so he is on this application?
So you thought that he doesn't need it? And that's thinking good of him? So the idea of him being there was on your mind. For me, thinking good of someone means not even considering it. I mean, I don't walk around and think "I know that my mother won't ever kill someone". That would be pretty strange and it would mean that the picture of her doing it is somewhere in the depth of my mind.
And it's not what you think about him, but what you feel. And if you would feel that he is a honest good guy, you wouldn't jump to conclusions but keep your faith in what you know about him.
Yes I was think he is honest good guy, but when I see today that he is on this page so I dont think what I think about him. Because he is single and young so he can do what he want and I dont know what is on his mind now.. because He have a different mood and he is emotional unstablr and he still compare himself and his father because his father is divorced and he told he dooesnt want be like his father etc.. so he is complicated nature because one time He maybe want me and be with me and he know I great girl and later he have a afraid have a relationship and he want alone and maybe he want have a lot girls and he think he isnt good for me and he have a low confidence because I am from good family and he not.... and my father wasnt happy when he was know I was with him.... so this all things I create too??
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Thread Starter- Sanshi
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Yes I was think he is honest good guy, but when I see today that he is on this page so I dont think what I think about him. Because he is single and young so he can do what he want and I dont know what is on his mind now.. because He have a different mood and he is emotional unstablr and he still compare himself and his father because his father is divorced and he told he dooesnt want be like his father etc.. so he is complicated nature because one time He maybe want me and be with me and he know I great girl and later he have a afraid have a relationship and he want alone and maybe he want have a lot girls and he think he isnt good for me and he have a low confidence because I am from good family and he not.... and my father wasnt happy when he was know I was with him.... so this all things I create too??
Wait a minute...he is single? So what's the point? What's dishonest about using a dating app while being single?
You create everything including him not knowing what he wants.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Laura1234
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Re: He is on date application
Nothing sanshi.. He can be on this application and flirt and text and have a sex.... its so perfect for me and I really feel good...I really happy and so I write this here...
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