shyxaxnne wrote:

hey everyone, so i have been in the process of reconciling w my love for a while now and i have definetely grown so much as a person. i love myself way more than i did before and i’m at a pretty good place i’d say. i have been detaching and letting go and just trusting the universe. veronica always says to not contact them and to let them comtact you, i haven’t comtacted him for so many months now. but now i feel like maybe it’s time to just see how he is? i really don’t wanna mess things up but is contacting them really messing with the process? i have been letting it go but he’s still contantly on my mind. what should i do?

If you're in a good place and not attached to the outcome, go for it. Just be prepared for any outcome. No contact itself isn't applicable to all situations. It's generally something that is there for people who are constantly inundating the person with unwanted, constant calls or texts.