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Third Party
I can't seem to get over my guy being in another relationship. I thought I had and I thought things were moving in my favor, but today I stumbled on a picture of him and her kissing. The picture is from Oct. 30th. I'm trying not to let that have any power over me...
We haven't been in contact for 9 months. I know time doesn't matter, but I wanted to give context. In that time I haven't been able to manifest ANYTHING in regards to him. Not a text, phone call, like on social media, anything. He's with someone else. For a while I was really in a state of neediness & longing. I finally made the shift out of that at the beginning of Dec. I stopped stalking him & her on social media and focused more on healing and getting me back. The hurt isn't active in me like it once was. My state has improved. I've manifested a few things as a result of this shift. I feel SO much better about myself and am confident in who I am, but still nothing. Until today I REALLY felt like things were moving in my direction.
Could anyone give me advice on other ways to shift? My logical mind is saying to just give it up. That I deserve better. That I'm worthy of great love and that I shouldn't desire him because my reality is clearly showing me that he doesn't want anything to do with me. Maybe they're meant to be together?
Should I ignore everything and focus on something else? I create my own reality and dammit I want a reality with him. Do I live from a place where I already have what I want? Is that all it takes?
- Sanshi
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Re: Third Party
Let me ask you a question first. How much have to played with this stuff in other areas of your life? I mean conscious manifestations of stuff..small stuff, big stuff...doesn't matter. Small and big is only in our minds anyway. I ask because what I see everywhere on this forum is that people try to drive a car without knowing how to drive a car so to speak. Do you know exactly what you know to work? Or do you do what you read up from all different kinds of sources? Do you know what works or do you try to make it happen? You don't really need to answer that questions, because your post already reveals them.
A lot of your problems will vanish, when you read and understand what I wrote here: (all three posts).
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: Third Party
I've manifested minor things.. parking spaces, green lights. I've also manifested dog sitting for my neighbor countless times. I manifested $50 two days ago. I manifested a hookah yesterday. I've manifested "big, impossible" things when I didn't know about LOA (exact car I wanted, my own apartment exactly as I had visualized it, job). Whether I knew about LOA or not everything came about the same way. I knew what I wanted. I was relaxed. I believed it to be possible on some level.
I've even manifested him back twice (didn't know about LOA). I know what works. Feel like you have it, believe you can have it, don't worry about it too much, then in some way it happens. It's this subject that trips me up. I see my obstacles and lack of results and it makes me want to try harder. I think I'm trying too hard to make it happen. I want evidence. I want proof. I want a text or something that shows me I'm on the way.
Any tips on relaxing?
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Re: Third Party
AnythingIsPossible wrote:
I've manifested minor things.. parking spaces, green lights. I've also manifested dog sitting for my neighbor countless times. I manifested $50 two days ago. I manifested a hookah yesterday. I've manifested "big, impossible" things when I didn't know about LOA (exact car I wanted, my own apartment exactly as I had visualized it, job). Whether I knew about LOA or not everything came about the same way. I knew what I wanted. I was relaxed. I believed it to be possible on some level.
I've even manifested him back twice (didn't know about LOA). I know what works. Feel like you have it, believe you can have it, don't worry about it too much, then in some way it happens. It's this subject that trips me up. I see my obstacles and lack of results and it makes me want to try harder. I think I'm trying too hard to make it happen. I want evidence. I want proof. I want a text or something that shows me I'm on the way.
Any tips on relaxing?
Well, we manifest every second of every day. I was talking about conscious manifestations. Seems you already know the key points. Did you read at least the first two of my posts? If you get that two, you should already be more relaxed. "Signs follow, they do not precede". When you believe in your ability to create your reality, you don't longer need signs. Why even looking at the manifested world, when you know that it's all within anyway?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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