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I miss my recent ex gf and dont want to give up hope. We are not talking and im pretty sure im blocked as well. I dont feel the pain like i once did but now its a longing feeling and my friends and family dont understand. I know there are no definitive answers on if she will come back or not but the more i apply loa the more it hurts so i just feel stuck at this point. Any advice would appreciated. I am trying very hard to be happy and in a good vibe. It comes in waves. Would anyone be willing to personal message? i just have some questions. Thank you for reading.
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Law of attraction is a law so is always working, so when you say you are applying it do you mean things like visualising or remote seduction? What are you doing?
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I was doing rs and some visualization. But i feel i need to work on me and get me back before i get her back. Self love is what im working on at this point. And applying no contact for the time being. I believe i just get inpatient at times. The mornings are the hardest. Anxiety.
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Faithiskey88 wrote:
I was doing rs and some visualization. But i feel i need to work on me and get me back before i get her back. Self love is what im working on at this point. And applying no contact for the time being. I believe i just get inpatient at times. The mornings are the hardest. Anxiety.
The Law is always working, you can't stop using it. The question is only, if you can make it work in your favor or if you just blindly follow your programming. Anxiety is clearly telling you in which direction you are using it right now.
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I completely agree. Is there any advice on how to overcome anxiety? In this situation i know i can do this i believe.
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Faithiskey88 wrote:
I completely agree. Is there any advice on how to overcome anxiety? In this situation i know i can do this i believe.
There is nothing to overcome, when you accept the fact that it's all you. You create it all. There is NOTHING that can happen to you without you first believing in it in some way. What do you believe in that causes anxiety? I bet you believe that there is something that can happen to you without you being in control - random factors outsde of yourself that can control your life.
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Current circumstances. Mistakes i made after the break up. Things she said to me that go against her wanting to come back. What friends and family have said. I wish i could go back and not have made the texting mistakes. Those are the things that give me anxiety. I block the obstacles but when im not aware they sneak up on me and i almost cant breathe. I am usually not this way with a sp.
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Faithiskey88 wrote:
Current circumstances. Mistakes i made after the break up. Things she said to me that go against her wanting to come back. What friends and family have said. I wish i could go back and not have made the texting mistakes. Those are the things that give me anxiety. I block the obstacles but when im not aware they sneak up on me and i almost cant breathe. I am usually not this way with a sp.
No, that aren't the things that give you anxiety. What gives you anxiety is the meaning you assign to them. What do you feel to be true about the current circumstances? What do the "mistakes" you made mean? All of that means absolutely nothing, because you are the only cause for everything. But you give it meaning without being aware of it and that trips you up. You think that the mistakes you made and the things you said are causes for the future and have relevance in how your story unfolds and that's simply not true.
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You right. I need to block all those thoughts and stay focused on the true result i would like to see in my life.
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Faithiskey88 wrote:
You right. I need to block all those thoughts and stay focused on the true result i would like to see in my life.
Blocking thoughts won't help and that's not what I saying at all. When you block them, but still believe in them, you have gained nothing besides maybe more anxiety. See those circumstances as what they are - meaningless and powerless. You are the one giving power to them. You could give power to something else..or you could keep your power and operate from the state of knowing you are God and you are the only one creating in your world.