What should I do in this situation? So background info me and my love known each other for about 2 years will be 3 after this month. We was together I a relationship the first year and half was gonna get married talked about building a family. We broke up due to space and my insecurities. We was still keeping in contact but it just seemed like iverything was going down hill. After months of back and forth and me work in on myself we came back together to start I've but had the most horrible fight due to my insecurities. I was hurt of course we stopped talking they wanted to be friends they ended up getting in a relationship so quick I thought and I was right cause that turned out to be horrible so they came running back to me I was there they was broken hurting and going through it.they expressed to me that they still wanted to be friends so we were but the love and connection was there so we agreed to just be natural with each other and let it happen but in our own way we was forcing it they was scared to be hurt again so the idea of a relationship just made them cringe and I was pushing for a relationsgip because I wanted to be that person that they desired and just give them all my love it ended up blowing up in our face my insecurities came back and we ended up having the same horrible argument I started again to focus on myself and love myself but something horrible happened we spoke and they had the person they was messing with answer the phone my heart dropped I couldn't believe it the disrespect after Iverything my love and i have been through and gotten through i still feel them and their love iven after that I know thats a little weird but i do and I still love them i also feel their pain because iverytime we have that horrible argument they run to someone else so quickly I want to ease their pak and be their peace of mind please help I need advice thankh you in advance i love you and God I know the universe got me I just know advice advice words of wisdom