Moving on has never, ever brought any ex back to me. Maybe I am just different from the rest?

Why for me and for you colonel and happygirl ,move on  worked and for sanshi and preety f. not?I know many people who dont know Loa and they move on and it Worked for them so I dont understand why for sanshi and oretty no. And yes I dont think too you have to date with other people  its about what Happy g and colonel wrote. But for some people Worked date with people, because they forget on their exes and so they arent needy and desperate about this person and its energy who attract him back.

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Why for me and for you colonel and happygirl ,move on worked and for sanshi and preety f. not?I know many people who dont know Loa and they move on and it Worked for them so I dont understand why for sanshi and oretty no. And yes I dont think too you have to date with other people its about what Happy g and colonel wrote. But for some people Worked date with people, because they forget on their exes and so they arent needy and desperate about this person and its energy who attract him back.

Because it's not about the moving on, but how you change through it. It's like eating tons of chocolate every day, gaining a lot of weight, starting to eat the same amount of veggis while stopping eating the chocolate and then saying that the veggis are the reason for the weight loss. Well, kinda, but that's not the full truth. It's about the calories in the veggis. It's the same with moving on.

Let me give you an example. When my ex broke up with me, I was desperate, did all the visualisation, RS and all the crap I could find. But I was feeling crappy and as if I had lost something and so, nothing happened of course. Then, I started to become angry at him. I saw only the worst in him and then I decided to move on from him. There were other guys I fell for for a while. So I was even in love for a while. But not all my exes came back to me that moment (and technically, that is what would happen, if it was about moving on and falling for someone else - ALL your exes would come back every time..lol. I know that there are such stories, but it's a law, so it had to be consistent for everybody and it isn't, so it's not the master key). Why? Because I still saw us as seperate, I still had no positive emotions about him. I withdrew my attention from him and the Law says that everything we don't focus on dissipates.
Let me invent another person that also moved on and got their person back...lets call her Francis. Francis decided to move on from her ex after a few weeks of being desperate. She doesn't know anything about LoA. She joins a dating website and meets some guys, but none of them really interests her. A few months after her breakup, she thinks about her ex. She remembers a situation and she smiles. She feels a warm fuzzy feeling inside her and she thinks that he is a really nice guy and she really liked spending time with him and being with him. A week later, her ex contacted her. They text, talk on the phone, meet up and he tells her that he misses her and wants her back.

See the difference in the two stories? On the surface, Francis and I did the same thing. Neither of us intended to get their guy back. The key was how she felt about him. There was no resistance involved for him coming back. We have two different states of consciousness here and it's always about the state of consciousness.