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    12/14/2017 5:39 am  #1

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    So my "specific person" and I got into a little argument because I assumed something about him and he said that he got offended and "to not talk to him ever". I kept sending a row of texts apologizing and that I will never make assumptions about him again. What do I do and how can I manifest for us to be in good terms again?

     

    12/14/2017 6:04 am  #2

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    I would strongly suggest to make assumptions about him, but the right ones.

    "Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

    Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
     

    12/14/2017 6:28 am  #3

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    Sanshi wrote:

    I would strongly suggest to make assumptions about him, but the right ones.

     what right assumptions about him? please give me examples 
     

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    12/14/2017 8:25 am  #4

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    Jnc1207 wrote:

    Sanshi wrote:

    I would strongly suggest to make assumptions about him, but the right ones.

     what right assumptions about him? please give me examples 
     

    I don't know what you want. So I can just assume what assumptions would be right for you.
    But how about assuming that he loves you? That all is well? That nothing bad ever happened?

    "Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

    Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
     

    12/14/2017 8:36 am  #5

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    You do something interesting here that we do all the time without even noticing: You give meaning. You think "we had an argument, that's bad". But just by assuming it is bad, you make it bad. Watch your reactions. Your first reaction is sending a row of texts. Why a row? Hadn't been one genuin sorry be enough? You did more than that because you had some assumptions about the situation.
    Then you assume by starting this post that there is something to fix. Drop those assumptions, they aren't serving you. Stop giving meaning to things. There isn't something like inherit meaning.

    "Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

    Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
     

    12/14/2017 9:48 am  #6

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    Sanshi wrote:

    You do something interesting here that we do all the time without even noticing: You give meaning. You think "we had an argument, that's bad". But just by assuming it is bad, you make it bad. Watch your reactions. Your first reaction is sending a row of texts. Why a row? Hadn't been one genuin sorry be enough? You did more than that because you had some assumptions about the situation.
    Then you assume by starting this post that there is something to fix. Drop those assumptions, they aren't serving you. Stop giving meaning to things. There isn't something like inherit meaning.

    What can I do to manifest to make things good between us again?

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    12/14/2017 10:15 am  #7

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    I would just relax.  And probably not actually do anything.    I would change my mindset. That everything is ok and there’s nothing wrong.    I mean if you continued texting him right now, you would probably just piss him off


    The funny thing is.  If you change your state of mind, that everything is ok, he’s not mad,etc. and then say, you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened, things would most likely be normal

     

    12/14/2017 10:29 am  #8

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    I would just relax.  And probably not actually do anything.    I would change my mindset. That everything is ok and there’s nothing wrong.    I mean if you continued texting him right now, you would probably just piss him off


    The funny thing is.  If you change your state of mind, that everything is ok, he’s not mad,etc. and then say, you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened, things would most likely be normal

    what do you mean by "you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened"?

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    12/14/2017 10:41 am  #9

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    Jnc1207 wrote:

    Dan2015 wrote:

    I would just relax.  And probably not actually do anything.    I would change my mindset. That everything is ok and there’s nothing wrong.    I mean if you continued texting him right now, you would probably just piss him off


    The funny thing is.  If you change your state of mind, that everything is ok, he’s not mad,etc. and then say, you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened, things would most likely be normal

    what do you mean by "you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened"?

    I’m saying. If you change your mindset that nothing is wrong, he’s not mad, etc.     and then you texted him tomorrow or even later today.  It could be like nothing happened

     

    12/14/2017 10:49 am  #10

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    Dan2015 wrote:

    Jnc1207 wrote:

    Dan2015 wrote:

    I would just relax.  And probably not actually do anything.    I would change my mindset. That everything is ok and there’s nothing wrong.    I mean if you continued texting him right now, you would probably just piss him off


    The funny thing is.  If you change your state of mind, that everything is ok, he’s not mad,etc. and then say, you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened, things would most likely be normal

    what do you mean by "you texted him tomorrow like nothing happened"?

    I’m saying. If you change your mindset that nothing is wrong, he’s not mad, etc.     and then you texted him tomorrow or even later today.  It could be like nothing happened

    last time I texted him was yesterday apologizing to him and he didn't answer me. Should I just leave it and change my mindset until he texts me?

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