I did this. I checked my guy's instagram everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, for a few weeks hoping that he wouldn't post a picture with the girl he's dating because, to me, posting on instagram makes it official. Well, this past Sunday I checked his profile like I always did and there was the picture. I was devastated, but I've accepted reality. I created it. Right when I saw the picture, I knew what I'd done and have since decided to stay off social media all together. 

Now, I'm working on creating something different, something better, something positive, something that I actually want. You can do the same. LOA is ALWAYS working. 

I honestly don’t know why we get into the habit of checking their social media.      I feel like people can feel that negative energy too.    Just think what the person would say if they knew we were checking their social media every day or even multiple times a day


I feel like deep down whether we want to admit it or not.  We know when we truly believe we can get our desires or not.     And we also know if we’re in a positive or negative alignment.          I mean as weird as it sounds, you can have a bad day or not feel happy and still be in a good alignment.   It’s just like “oh well that sucked.  I’ll just accept it and create better”


I mean  like others have said.  What do we expect when we check their social media?    I mean we aren’t looking for good things.  We are looking for something bad.   It might not happen today or tomorrow.  But if you keep checking. Sooner or later you’re gonna see something you don’t like.   It’s just affirming your belief


Think about it.  If you truly love yourself, in alignment and believe you already have your desire.  Would you doubt,fear, worry,  stress, look at their social media, etc?

I’ve been doing a lot of self reflecting for myself lately.  And realized my belief wasn’t as strong as I thought.     When you’re really feeling good.  You don’t wait, you don’t doubt, etc.   I mean you’re too focused on yourself to even care

Social media does not matter . I understand I do it too but people make it out to mean much more then it does. People use it to make their lives look awesome and do validation. Have you ever thought he knew you were snooping? Wanted you to see it? We don't know. Can't place everything on it and our own self worth and validation it doesn't mean sh**. My guy was tagged in vacation pictures and stuff with her you know what happened? He wasn't happy and contacted me. Seriously don't use social media to make yourself feel important and remember people post what they want you to see not what may actually be going on. Focus on you and stop for your own benefit looking cause like everyone saids it's like you want to set yourself up for something bad

Selfloveiskey wrote:

You do know that looking at the profile means you are lookin for something and if you do it enough you will find it. That is what happened here. You need to unfollow him and focus on you. What he is doing doesn't matter. I hope you can see here that loa happened perfectly. You always have fears of new girls and him not being single and then boom after consistent fear it happened. Now focus on you.

 
This happened me too.. I was afraid and I attracted this... but I akways attract things who I afraid that they will happen.. I very easy and fast attract things who I afraid: ( why its so hard truly believe in good things and its so easy have a fear? I afraid that I will all my life attract things who I scary . I maybe can stop stalking him on social media but I will still afraid that I will see him with another girl even thought I know that this my fear will attract a negative results I dont know stop afraid all bad things

Last edited by Laura1234 (12/07/2017 6:08 pm)