Sanshi wrote:

1) It's possible, but not from where you are at the moment. If you can make it a reality depends on if you can change.

2) You assume that he is the perfect match for her, that she is happy with him and that a breakup would necessarily cause her pain. Drop that. You don't know how this will happen. There are a ton of scenarios where she doesn't suffer because of the breakup. She finds out she is gay, she is secretly still in love with her ex and goes back to him, she joins a monastery, she just isn't in love with him and realises that after a while. If you don't want to cause her pain, imagine her happy.

You said your fear came true. That's no universe telling you anything. That's LoA working. You get what you expect. It's that simple. Has nothing to do with what you should do or shouldn't or what's best for you or whatever. It means nothing. It means that you create your reality, that's it.

Wow. You're right. I was thinking way too deeply into this. I mean it's the Universe's job to figure out the "how" anyway and I'm manifesting for the 'highest good of all involved' so everything will work out perfectly. Thanks so much for your reply

Sanshi your posts are so amazing! I have learned so much from them!

As far as the first statement Sanshi said i think it means  that it is possible. But she is becoming her own obstacle and thus right now in her current state she is stopping herself. These obstacles are her doubts, fear, insecurities etc.. so in order to receive she needs to stop having these limiting beliefs and negative thoughts

Kiba101 wrote:

Sanshi your posts are so amazing! I have learned so much from them!

Thank you. Good to hear that my stuff is still read and all the time I invested isn't lost.

LearningToDetach wrote:

I totally understood the 2nd point but could you elaborate more on the first? What kind of change should we be working towards?

I have just literally been in the same boat as her. Similar timeframe too....

Thank you so much...

Sure. Well, that's the essence of LoA that most people miss. Let LoA stand for LoA for Law of Assumption here (the term Neville uses). In my book, the term Law of Attraction is simply wrong, because you don't attract anything to you (implying that you stay where you are and something comes to you). You have to move to go where the thing you want is, that's what I mean by changing. You need to change your state of consciousness. You have to BE the person you want to be before you have proof that you are it.
I know a state of consciousness is quite abstract. Let me give you an example of states you probably have been in and you therefore know. Go back to the state of consciousness you had when you where in kindergarten. When you started, you looked up to the children who where close to going to school. School...you had no idea what it was like, but it sounded exciting to you. You wanted to grow up fast so that you could go to school too. Then, you were one of the children that would go to school soon. Now you were in a completely different consciousness. You were conscious of knowing more than the new children who were a lot smaller than you. Maybe you played the role of a mentor for them, showed them everything. When you started going to school, you looked down at kindergarten children, because they didn't even know what 1+3 was. .... And so on. You get the point. That all are states. You moved through an incredible large number of states throughout your life. When you close your eyes, can you feel yourself to be the 6 year old child again that just entered elementary school? When you can do that - not just imagine yourself as 6 year old child - but really go back having the same thoughts and fears that little child had, THEN you have changed states in that moment. Well, when you open your eyes, you will notice that you aren't that child anymore and your former state state relating that specific subject would come back. In my case it would be "oh, I am not a 6 year old elementary school kid", but a nearly 27 year old psychology student". That's right in my face. But when I close my eyes again, I can go back in time again. And when I do this every day, at some point, I will be able to go to that place with eyes open and dwell in that feeling of being the 6 year old child. Well, I don't know what would happen, if I would do that. If my belief was strong enough, I probably would really go back in time and be that kid again, I don't know. Maybe the example wasn't the best I could choose. But I think you get the point, right?