Yes. That is a problem.     Honestly  before this Monday that passed.  I had a bad habit of looking at the person I wants social media.      It’s reslly not healthy for your mental state and just creates more anxiety,fear, doubt,etc.   I mean if you were with them, you wouldn’t look at their page.


I honestly feel so much better since I stopped

I have done the same thing. I purposely removed the Facebook app and unfollowed and I remind myself if I really care about how I feel I wouldn't check his Facebook because it doesn't matter . What he does doesn't matter. The universe knows my request I just need to be in the space to receive it.  Sometimes easier said then done buuut it takes practice. Think about your well being first and remember social media is basically a place where people brag and try to show off their life we never fully see what's underneath

Selfloveiskey wrote:

I have done the same thing. I purposely removed the Facebook app and unfollowed and I remind myself if I really care about how I feel I wouldn't check his Facebook because it doesn't matter . What he does doesn't matter. The universe knows my request I just need to be in the space to receive it.  Sometimes easier said then done buuut it takes practice. Think about your well being first and remember social media is basically a place where people brag and try to show off their life we never fully see what's underneath

Your always giving good advice Im really trying hard to work on me first which has been a struggle. I will try hard to not look at all. I have been doing it for so long 😳

Selfloveiskey wrote:

We can't think of time . I'm currently back doing this and if I have done it at my lowest ( this is pretty close) then I can do it now and so can you . We have to take it a moment at a time sometimes. I'm thankful my guy wants to be there for me no matter what still. I want more though but there are always things to be grateful for .

You give me hope. Please keep me updated on your story

Laura1234 wrote:

I have a this problem too: ( I stalking him always and now I see he follow again one girl who in the past he sleep with ther.. she is typicall instagram girl... and I cry because I think that he will want hec again.. how much can destroy instagram or facebook our happiness? But how stop stalking? I try so long time and I dont know stop it..but what is worse? When I dont will any information about him or and I dont will know he have or he havent girl and I will see him with her and it will shocked for me or when I will stalking him and I will have a overwiev about him and when I will see him with someone so I dont will surprise?..

I know how you feel as that is my issue to that they will be with someone else but we have to think positive and figure out a way not to stalk their lives because its just bringing on more negativity in our lives. We can get through it. Maybe we should set up a challenge for like a week to not look at their social media at all and go from there