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Hi all,
So I'm not new here. I used to came here to manifest an ex. So He came back and we are good friends now. Before he came back, I manifested this guy A, he was everything that I desired deep down. We were going out for 1.5 years and of course thanks to my negative thoughts we broke up now. We are not talking to each other but are friends on social media and whats app. Part of my negativity also got to do with my depression which I do not know I have. But im seeing therapist now and fixing all issues that I have. While I was believing that we will get back together, today one of his close friend wife texted me saying that she heard about our breakup and that we can still be friends. Im so surprised that he is telling people that we are over. I begged for a chance and all, and now this when I was feeling good. I was feeling confident that we will get back together and this text has set me back totally on the floor I feel as though I cant get up.
Please help me align. I feel right now all of this is too much handle. Its been 2 weeks since we spoke and I thought he might be missing me. Definitely did not expect this to come.
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Hi all,
So I'm not new here. I used to came here to manifest an ex. So He came back and we are good friends now. Before he came back, I manifested this guy A, he was everything that I desired deep down. We were going out for 1.5 years and of course thanks to my negative thoughts we broke up now. We are not talking to each other but are friends on social media and whats app. Part of my negativity also got to do with my depression which I do not know I have. But im seeing therapist now and fixing all issues that I have. While I was believing that we will get back together, today one of his close friend wife texted me saying that she heard about our breakup and that we can still be friends. Im so surprised that he is telling people that we are over. I begged for a chance and all, and now this when I was feeling good. I was feeling confident that we will get back together and this text has set me back totally on the floor I feel as though I cant get up.
Please help me align. I feel right now all of this is too much handle. Its been 2 weeks since we spoke and I thought he might be missing me. Definitely did not expect this to come.
First of all, stop begging to get back together as though he is better than you and has power over you. He isn't and he doesn't. Believe that he would be lucky to have you. Seeming obstacles may appear along the way, but you can't let these things bother you and stop you from continuing on in imagining the desired end result that you want. Listen to Neville explain how to use your imagination to create your desired reality. Here's a link to The Secret of Imagining.
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Last edited by Cynthia (11/21/2017 12:45 pm)
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Begging takes the power from yourself and gives it to the other person. You don't need to beg, you're a powerful person.Β
I'll wind up repeating Cynthia if I carry on so I'll just suggest what she shared. Β
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Thank you for both Cynthia & Stacey!Β
Much love xx