Milk&Honey wrote:

Today I realised what's my big obstacle.
I visualize and everything is great. I feel wonderful, it is amazing. The problem is when I go on with my day. Everything is different between my visualization and my reality. I feel scared that I won't have what I want, that something bad will happen and I will loose it. I am so scared and when I hear something about him by someone, even if it something very small and simple, my heart beats and I am terrified. I am afraid that I will hear something bad (espacially that he will marry his gf. I do hear though that everyone tells him to get married but he doesn't want to). I am really really scared. I want to manifest a text or meeting him, but then I am scared that if we talk, he may tell me that he is so in love with her, or whatever...... something bad. I am stressed and I block the text or meeting him
I know, that means that I don't trust, that I have doubts and this is full of contrast and resistence. 
What should I do? I wish I could feel that in reality everything is just as my visualization. 
I am also scared that when I do truly believe, something bad will happen.. that I will be very happy and then suddenly everything will fall apart. What should I do ???

 
This is the same old thing I've seen over and over on this forum. All of these fears and doubts because the outside world hasn't yet changed to match the visualisations. Neville Goddard not only proved and taught that imagination creates reality, but he also said that what is imagined is already real. It just hasn't shown up in the outside world yet. It's like planting seeds. You've got to give them time to grow into plants or trees. You wouldn't go and dig up the seeds to see if they've started to grow. You'd leave them to grow and water them as needed and trust that they would grow. You've got to be patient and persistent, give your visualisations time to work, and not worry about how much time it takes. All the worries, doubts, and fears will only serve to delay things. It's like going back and digging up those seeds that were planted.  You've got to ignore the current reality and close your ears to the things you don't want to hear. With the technology in today's world making everything happen so quickly and even instantly it is making people so impatient and expecting to have what they want right now and if that doesn't happen and their visualisation doesn't work instantly or within a couple of days they lose faith and start to have fears and doubts and get themselves into a state over it. That's patently absurd. My late mum used to say 'all good comes to those who wait', and there is a lot of truth in that. It doesn't mean you have to wait forever, but you have to be patient, have faith, be strong enough of mind not to be swayed by other people's words and opinions or by outward circumstances and conditions, and not give up unless you change your mind about what you want.

Last edited by Cynthia (11/23/2017 5:19 pm)

Those were great words Cynthia! Thanks 

You are around for a whole while now and I remember reading some amazing advice you gave to others, but you still seem to struggle to get the basics for yourself. I love to break things down as much as possible. I think there are only three steps necessary to manifest successfully. In fact, even the last one should be enough, but the other two are very helpful:

Step 1: Know that you are God, because...well..you are.
Your post clearly shows that you aren't aware of that, at least not in a practical experiential way. Would you believe in any obstacles as God? Would you let yourself be affected by your own creation? No, of course not.

Step 2: Feel yourself to be the person you want to be.
That's where your visualisation comes in. The question that came to mind when I read about your visualisation was: do you visualise what you want or do you visualise FROM what you want? Are you looking at the scene? Or are you part of the scene? And I don't only mean the way you visualise. I mean the consciousness you are in the moment you visualise. Are you the person you want to be in that moment? Or do you see the person you want to be from the perspective of the person you are now? If you can't leave your current state, nothing will ever change.

Step 3: Stay in that consciousness
Feel yourself to be the person you want to be REGARDLESS of what you see. Living from the state means that you have to feel it as a normal part of yourself. Evidence of something other can't affect you, because you are so sure of your state. If you were happily together with your boyfriend right now and someone came and told you that they saw him with another girl (assuming that you trusted him), you wouldn't believe them, because you were in the state of a happy relationship. You just knew that he loves you too much to do something like this. It wouldn't affect you at all. When reality hits you in the face, you know that you left the state you need to be in to attract what you want. Take it as a loving hint and get back in the right state of consciousness. Live from your wish been fulfilled.

Sanshi wrote:

You are around for a whole while now and I remember reading some amazing advice you gave to others, but you still seem to struggle to get the basics for yourself. I love to break things down as much as possible. I think there are only three steps necessary to manifest successfully. In fact, even the last one should be enough, but the other two are very helpful:

Step 1: Know that you are God, because...well..you are.
Your post clearly shows that you aren't aware of that, at least not in a practical experiential way. Would you believe in any obstacles as God? Would you let yourself be affected by your own creation? No, of course not.

Step 2: Feel yourself to be the person you want to be.
That's where your visualisation comes in. The question that came to mind when I read about your visualisation was: do you visualise what you want or do you visualise FROM what you want? Are you looking at the scene? Or are you part of the scene? And I don't only mean the way you visualise. I mean the consciousness you are in the moment you visualise. Are you the person you want to be in that moment? Or do you see the person you want to be from the perspective of the person you are now? If you can't leave your current state, nothing will ever change.

Step 3: Stay in that consciousness
Feel yourself to be the person you want to be REGARDLESS of what you see. Living from the state means that you have to feel it as a normal part of yourself. Evidence of something other can't affect you, because you are so sure of your state. If you were happily together with your boyfriend right now and someone came and told you that they saw him with another girl (assuming that you trusted him), you wouldn't believe them, because you were in the state of a happy relationship. You just knew that he loves you too much to do something like this. It wouldn't affect you at all. When reality hits you in the face, you know that you left the state you need to be in to attract what you want. Take it as a loving hint and get back in the right state of consciousness. Live from your wish been fulfilled.

I know that I can advice almost anyone, but when it comes to me everything is different. My friends also tell me the same thing..

You said some very interesting things I had never thought before. About part two, the truth is that I visualize from the perspective of my current situation. I had never realized that. If you have ever seen the movie what the bleep do we know, that's the observer. The observer forms reality.

About part three and one, this is full faith, no matter what.

That was very interesting, thanks for that ☺