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Question. Interested in responses
I’ve been thihking of something and I’m kind of interested in what people think
Do you think it’s harder to manifest getting your ex back or manifesting a relationship with a new person?
For example. I’ve met this girl awhile ago. We’ve always been close and have had a “thing”. It’s like we’ve always liked each other but never dated
Idk how to explain this. But have you ever had a conversation with someone. And the vibe is so amazing, the energy is matching. And even though they haven’t directly told you they like you, they give random signs that they do? And based off the vibe you can tell they do?
It’s funny. Lately we’ve had some down times. But I can just tell that she has strong feelings for me and wants to be with me. But it’s like she’s scared to take the risk(I feel like it’s just reflecting me, because a few months ago I was the one fearful of taken the risk)
It’s like we go back and forth lol
See. I’m frustrated. But I’m not depressed,desperate,etc about it and I STILL know she thinks I’m perfect for her, has feelings for me, etc
My vibe has been a little down lately. So I know it’s like this
We’ve always been like this. When I’m not in alignment. Our convos aren’t as good, she searches for other guys, and it’s like her feelings are hidden
But as soon as I’m in alignment. You can see how much she wants you
I just know if I stay in alignment consistently. Limit my fears,worries,etc That things will become great. I just know we will end up dating
But my question still is. Do you think it’s harder with an ex or a person you never dated?
- Bugg88
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Re: Question. Interested in responses
I think it’s harder to manifest a relationship with an ex because there is history and feelings of love already exist. In that case it seems more likely to be attached to the outcome because you have already experienced what a relationship with them can be like and know what you are missing out on while not together.
But, now that I just wrote that I can see the other side of it too. Maybe it’s easier to manifest an ex back because you do know them and it feels like attracting back what you know already fits instead of taking a risk on something totally different with someone new.
HA, I’m not sure my answers helped or just confused the issue more!
I guess the best answer is whichever option makes you feel the least amount of resistance will be the one that is easier to manifest.
- Gratitude21
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Re: Question. Interested in responses
Dan2015 wrote:
I’ve been thihking of something and I’m kind of interested in what people think
Do you think it’s harder to manifest getting your ex back or manifesting a relationship with a new person?
For example. I’ve met this girl awhile ago. We’ve always been close and have had a “thing”. It’s like we’ve always liked each other but never dated
Idk how to explain this. But have you ever had a conversation with someone. And the vibe is so amazing, the energy is matching. And even though they haven’t directly told you they like you, they give random signs that they do? And based off the vibe you can tell they do?
It’s funny. Lately we’ve had some down times. But I can just tell that she has strong feelings for me and wants to be with me. But it’s like she’s scared to take the risk(I feel like it’s just reflecting me, because a few months ago I was the one fearful of taken the risk)
It’s like we go back and forth lol
See. I’m frustrated. But I’m not depressed,desperate,etc about it and I STILL know she thinks I’m perfect for her, has feelings for me, etc
My vibe has been a little down lately. So I know it’s like this
We’ve always been like this. When I’m not in alignment. Our convos aren’t as good, she searches for other guys, and it’s like her feelings are hidden
But as soon as I’m in alignment. You can see how much she wants you
I just know if I stay in alignment consistently. Limit my fears,worries,etc That things will become great. I just know we will end up dating
But my question still is. Do you think it’s harder with an ex or a person you never dated?
Hi, I think you have your answer in your own description of the situation itself. You have observed that when your vibes are up, the new girl’s attraction for you is more and you can feel it. And when your vibes are low, you notice the difference in her attitude.
What I’m trying to say is attracting an ex back or manifesting a new relationship is same amount of work and your perseverance towards it.
Wherever your focus is is what you get!
It’s about ‘YOU’ not the other person. You focus and concentrate and work on getting an ex back...you will achieve that. Your good vibes are attracting someone new in life that’s also all your work.
I would definitely want to talk to the new person to see what’s on their mind.
Living in gratitude, loving yourself, asking and let go! Trust the process!
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com