Hii,
Me and my “ex”(don’t like this word), it was a complicated/confusing relationship (if you want me to tell you I will), he lied to me and kind of cheated on me (he’s now dating her), the last message I got from him saying “leave me alone” so I left him alone and focused on myself. We have been broken up for almost 3 months now.
Two days ago he messaged me saying he was in my home town and do I want to meet! He found it weird when he was meeting me because we had a relationship and now he’s dating other person so he felt like he was cheating on her with me, but he did say “I want you”.. This confused me in a happy way- it’s was out of the blue, Wasn’t expected it!
I don’t know anything about her, but it would seem like she’s controlling him..We arranged to meet up again today (6th of nov) but he got cold feet, saying I can’t/won’t meet you, I was very disappointed because I was looking forward to seeing him again, I didn’t go crazy I just said okay then he replied with please leave me alone for a bit, and I have.. I think he’s very very unsure about what/who he wants..?
I want to be in a relationship with him, I care so much about him.
It set me back a bit to keep strong, but I do truly believe we will be together again, I visualise being with him and focus on that. These last few weeks I’ve been really happy (self-love) I don’t want to give up on him! I don’t want them to break up again because of me! (But that’s in the past)
Have you got any advice for me? Because I’m confused about him and him being so unsure what he want because I know what I want.
Thanks Jo~

Last edited by Jo28 (11/06/2017 1:53 pm)