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Did I make a mistake?
So today, I was lying in bed with my ex (now boyfriend) and we were talking about our break up. A few days ago, when talking about how bad he had felt during our breakup, he started to get teary eyes. Well today, while we were talking, I looked at him and said I had missed him, while smiling. My eyes started tearing up and I cried a little bit, but it was happy tears. I also told him that to ensure him I was happy. He was very sweet about it and told me he hates to see me cry.
Before our breakup, I would cry a lot in front of him, and was very emotional. I think this scared him away a little bit (before the breakup) because I was crying so often when we saw each other. Because of this, I had promised myself not to cry in front of him if we ever got back together. Do you guys think I made a big mistake? I didn't want to show him that the breakup had affected me so strongly, so I feel like I gave it away when I cried.
- Bugg88
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Re: Did I make a mistake?
No way! It shows you care for him and were affected by the breakup. Just let it go now. You are happy now right? So, keep that happy vibe going!!
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Re: Did I make a mistake?
Bugg88 wrote:
No way! It shows you care for him and were affected by the breakup. Just let it go now. You are happy now right? So, keep that happy vibe going!!
Even if he was the one to initiate the breakup? Also, how do you work with thoughts of "too good to be true" lol? I really am so happy, and things are like a dream. I just want to keep this going.
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Thread Starter- Selfloveiskey
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Re: Did I make a mistake?
No way! It shows you care for him and were affected by the breakup. Just let it go now. You are happy now right? So, keep that happy vibe going!!
Even if he was the one to initiate the breakup? Also, how do you work with thoughts of "too good to be true" lol? I really am so happy, and things are like a dream. I just want to keep this going.
Honestly it sounds like you are nervous. I get the shock of it and that feeling but remind yourself you create you got this. So if you think you are scaring him off you will. I honestly think you need more self love because it sounds like you may not think you are worthy of this. It's ok you can have him while you do this but you really really need to practice self love because you are worthy of whatever your heart desires. You are also still bringing up the past relationship focus on the one you want to create why bring up stuff in the past. I want you to feel happily genuinely happy but just because we get them doesn't mean the work stops. Focus on love for yourself and honestly you will feel peace and not only that you won't be bringing up stuff from the past relationship because you are so focused on you and the future
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