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shyxaxnne wrote:

so i’ve been trying to attract back my love for a few months now and i got a text from him today saying, “hello. is this shyanne?”. obviously i got really happy and said “yeah what’s up?”. he ended up just asking me if he can have his sweaters back. i wasn’t going to reply but i ended up replying a while later saying “um yeah i’ll j give them to emilie tm”. emilie is his sister by the way and we hang out all the time, she’s literally like a sister to me. oh and also, we all go to the same school. but he responded with “k thanks” and that was it. we haven’t said a word to eachother in months. i did get contact from him but it was just him asking me for his stuff back. what does this mean? is this all a part of bringing him back to me? i’m kind of comfused and would appreciate some help! 

Be happy it's contact so it's a step 😊. Keep going . In June my guy started to date someone else and said he "wanted to erase every memory of me". I was decestated and was desperate for months. Every so often he was rude but it was contact. When I finally let go and focused on being happy because I was tired of being miserable ( I kept assuming he was happy with her etc). I got nice contact on his own to me. And it seemed to hint more feelings . As of two weeks ago he told me he wasn't happy with her , she was worse then me, that he always comes back to me, that he loves me and could never love anyone else more, that when he said that he was trying to push me away and that after that he just wanted contact with me so he would say whatever. So moral of the story keep at it it works out but focus on being happy on your own that is the rule of any manifesting even ones without relationships. I'm learning that still. It's keeping it up and I'm happy to do that because when I started doing that it was the most at peace I felt and I wasn't desperate I just would say thank you for contact and let it go.

sillyromantic wrote:

like others said before, don't get discouraged, at least the door is open for communication again. Just be calm and stay positive. The first thing my ex told me when he called me after 5 months was "I'm still with **** and she knows I'm calling you but..." (he called to check on me because I was in an accident). I was thinking wow, I did all this work for months and this is the first thing I get to hear from him? why did he have to make that known so early in the conversation? but then we had a positive "closure" talk and wished each other well and  I know he still cares about me. You never know what is going on behind the scenes so don't drive yourself crazy assuming or guessing. I'm going to see him again on a mutual business trip from our jobs in a few weeks so I'm working on me now and not worrying about it so much. I know they won't stay together long anyway. Everyone is telling me it's a rebound and they won't last so I'm just focusing on my own life now.

Yup see everyone has their own situation working on you is a common helpful thing everyone starts there . I like the confidence sillyromantic 😊Btw