ConfusedLearner wrote:

Hello there!
This is my first post on this forum, and like many others I'm needing help to understand some weird signs that I think I've been receiving from the universe.

I'm trying to manifest my ex girlfriend back. We had an amazing relationship but due family issues we've been separated. The story is quite big, so I'm gonna try to be short as possible so I don't make any of you bored lol.

The main point is that slowly both of us started walking in different paths. She was distant from me, and eventually she "met" a guy that she is currently living with. This fellow have horrible qualities, is involved in some type of bad religion (he's a lunatic that tells that to the whole world to see on his facebook account) and to make things worse he had a horrible fight with some of her family members (which made me feel really angry about the whole situation, my gut tells me that he's misleading her in a lot of ways, specially because he's living in her house and he does not have a job).

I'm desperate trying to manifest her back into my life. I feel that I was wrong in some things, and even feeling that she betrayed me with this bad person I still love her and I'm willing to forgive everything just to have her back and safe in my arms.

In this whole proccess of trying to manifest her back a lot of negative news came from her. I've been told that she wants to marry him (mind you, they're only dating for two and a half months) and that she is very "happy" in this whole situation (I've heard her voice once and she didn't sound happy at all, in fact, I was deeply hurt to know that she was feeling really sad).

I keep believing and sometimes I feel incredible fine. I can feel her by my side and I keep having good vibes when I really focus on the things that I like. But sometimes in the day I keep seing some stuff that I keep interpreting as signs. Many of those things basicly tells me that she's going to marry and I'm gonna lose her.

The funny thing is that a lot of times I still feel pretty confident that I'll have her back. I've had a lot of moments that I truly felt that she's comming back to me. This whole situation is making me confused and I've also had some deep moments that I was feeling that she's comming back.

So, after this "book" that I wrote, my question relies on this situation: Am I seeing signals from the universe that I should back off or am I just scared from the things that I'm watching around me?

Any tips are deeply appreciated!
I also want to tank Veronica Isles for making this whole community and I would also like to thank any single of one of the readers of this post!
Thank you all in advance!

ps: english is not my main language, so I'm sorry for any mistakes!
 

 
It's not signs from the universe. You are scared. You need to calm your mind, lose the desperation, and do what Neville says. Imagination creates reality. Imaginal acts harden into facts with persistence over time. If you want this woman back, ignore the current reality and imagine only what you want in its most ideal form as if it were already true now.  So, if you want to marry her, for example, in your imagination see the two of you blissfully happily married to each other, but not like you are up on a screen, but instead like she is rigbt there with you in person. This has been compared to planting seeds. You are planting the seed of this in your subconscious mind. It usually takes some time for the seeds to grow into their final result, so give it some time, persist and don't give up. Be patient, and don't worry, and don't keep looking for signs, checking and rechecking things, or analysing things. Just imagine living in the end of the wish fulfilled and let it happen, with no doubts, fears, or other negativity getting in the way.

Hey Cynthia! I'm sorry for the late response!

What you said really resonated with me, made me relax and made me feel really confortable in this crazy situation that I'm in. Although it's really hard not to calm in this situation, it really makes sense. After all, I'm the one trying to manifest this, and I should ask my desire without any feeling of guilty or without any resistence, right?

In the very same day that you answered my post, I was hoping for some kind of signs (once again, lol). And basicly in the same moment you answered my post I've had some really bad news about her that made me almost cry. This "relationship" that she's in seems to get worse and worse, and somehow everything that I said was going to happen between both of them is already taking place.

I don't know if I manifested all of this, but in reality it didn't take any effort to imagine that she was going to face some horrible problems, in fact, some of her bad decisions put her in a horrible situation. I don't want to see her hurt, and this is making me really sad.

What you said that day really made me think that I should stay without any type of negative thinking. From that day I still trying to stop questioning what happened and what will happen. As you said, there's just no way to know what's on someone else's mind, and constantly I'm trying to remind myself of this.

I still love her, and I'm completely devasted by this whole situation. I always treated her in the best way while she in various occasions did not. Those little details are driving me nuts. But hey, love is still love, and I have faith that everything will turn out ok. Somehow, I'm starting to let go a bit more so I don't give my anxious energy in this whole proccess.

Your anwers helped me a lot Cynthia!
Thank you so much!