I just want to share this quickly:

So I decided to restart RS, and I've been trying my best to be happy. I really wanted to know the immediate effect of RS, and since my love and I are in different continents, I wanted to try it with someone nearby. I picked my ex from 13-14 years ago, who is still a friend, and who is friends with my family. Our relationship is so friendly and civil that he still attends my relatives' celebrations / birthdays / deaths / fiestas even though I am not in my country. He is friendly with everyone in my family and my relatives treat him as a good friend.

Last week, before RS, I visualized him taking me out to lunch or dinner. We didn't do this since we broke up (13 years ago) but we would have group meals with my family and relatives. Later that night, my aunt called me saying that my ex invited her, me, and some of our relatives to his restaurant. He texted my aunt because he doesn't have my number. I got my manifestation BUT I declined the invitation.

This week, I did RS on him but not too intense, coz he's married with 2 kids, and I don't have feelings for him, I just wanted to observe the effect of RS first hand.

This weekend, he's been calling and texting my aunt to invite us to have lunch and dinner. We were on a road trip and he asked us to have lunch at a hotel in the city. TBH, I forgot that I did RS on him. Anyway we went and had light lunch and left. At night, he called my aunt again to invite us to his restaurant and didn't stop insisting until we agreed.  There was also a good stand-up comic, so eventually I agreed because I love stand-up comedies. 

The entire night I was at his restaurant, he never left my side. He'd sit with us and beside me, made sure we had great service, gave me a tour around his restaurant and his future plans for the place. The featured band last night was really good so that lifted up my vibe, and I almost died laughing coz the stand-up comic was so funny. 

Then I remembered doing RS on him. So while there, I did slight RS on him to observe the effects, and the effects were so immediate. He started to "accidentally" touch / brush his had on my lap (I was wearing shorts) or brush his hand on my shoulders and even touch my waist / hip as I excused myself to go to the restroom. I was floored. Then he looked at me in a different way. He would "accidentally" brush his hand on my lap and my shoulders or arms again and then massaged me on the shoulders -- he had never done this before. 

After the event, he invited us to a nearby hotel to have late-night pizza. He was so friendly. He said that it was already late (12 midnight) but didn't mind being out with us coz that doesn't happen often. And when I'd excuse myself to the restroom, I notice he'd look at me differently. I caught him staring at my breasts, as if mesmerized. 

After the late-night pizza, my aunt and her boyfriend went ahead. He was supposed to bring me home but suggested we go to his friend's bar coz he wanted to drop by to say hello to his friend. There, we were served drinks, and he started talking about the past again, his marriage, whom he dated after me. We also talked about business (he owns 3 businesses). He then massaged my hand and asked me to massage his had so I just did that for like 1 minute. And then later on, he started asking about sexual stuff like my experiences and if I'm seeing someone now. I didn't answer those. Then he started telling me about his ex whom he used to bring to that bar and how she was so in love with him but he didn't really feel it with her.

You know when you talk with a friend they always touch you like your lap, shoulder, arm, hand, etc. In the Asian culture, it's very common. Well, he did all those and also touched my chin like 3x and stroke my face like 3x also. I swear, I think this was because of the RS coz he never acted like this EVER!

I am convinced that this guy was ready to have sex with me if I were someone else and if he were still single and not in a relationship. But I don't have romantic feelings for him and I only care for him as a family friend. ALSO, I have strict rules about seeing / dating married men. I did this before without knowing he was married coz he told me he wasn't and I only got heartache and misery. 

While he drove me home, he kept on looking at my face. I could see it from my periphery. He also caressed my chin twice and my face twice. I didn't mind coz he couldn't help himself -- I did RS on him. Then he dropped me off. I said thank you and he did the same. Nothing happened. BUT I AM FLOORED BY THE WAY HE ACTED AROUND ME. 

I only did RS on him once. And it wasn't even intense. So what more if the RS was intense? 

Would like to hear your experiences. 

Last edited by Vera (11/07/2015 8:46 pm)