All I can tell you just focus on you and with that girl it won't last at all! We are all connected so if you're thinking about him he is surely thinking of you.

Last edited by IlunaMeisu (10/11/2017 12:07 pm)

Selfloveiskey wrote:

I get you for awhile I had to stop thinking about it . So I would put the focus on me I would actively change my mind and tell myself the universe is aware of what I want and it will take care of it. You can make a list of what you want in a relationship and traits and if he lines up with it then you can ask for that but if you want to go general ask for a loving relationship with someone and if it happens to be him awesome . If you are confused if you want him or not be general no pressure . Hope that makes sense

Thank you for your encouragement. It makes sense. I made a list of the qualities I want in my next partner and I don't want to be so attached to it or him and focus on me and what will make me happy. I have a lot of great things going for me right now and I'm trying to put my focus on that, just confused why he had come back into my head again after I thought I was already past it and haven't heard from him again for a couple of weeks. I know that even though he's moving out of state I will "bump" into him again in a couple of months because both the companies we are working for are flying us to a conference at the same place so I need to mentally prepare to seeing him again. The communication we had when he came back lead me to believe that he does still think about me too.
When we were together he gave me a guitar and the one time I saw him 4 months after the split he saw the guitar at my house and asked me if I'm still playing. I actually signed up for guitar lessons today and was tempted to text him but stopped myself because I don't need to initiate contact anymore. I appreciate your feedback and perspective! people in this forum really want to help and care!

Thanks. He actually came back because I was in a car accident and his mom told him, he wanted to check on me which was sweet of him. If he's happy with that girl I wish them the best but it didn't sound from what I gathered that they have a big romance there and he said he misses my cooking every day because she doesnt cook at all and he doesnt do much romantic things anymore like he used to do for me. But yeah, I was in a pretty good place leading to that accident. After the accident I had some events that added stress and lowered my vibration. I got lazy and didnt put as much work into self love, affirmations etc. I need to take better care of myself now either way so I can get myself feeling great again