mb16 wrote:

I am feeling so incredibly low, so sad, and so distraught. My vibes are so low, and I am doubting everything. I am even starting to doubt LOA, my manifestation powers and that my desire will manifest. I had some success, where my ex texted me, and I was so happy. I was also worrying, and I think I attracted the setback that occurred. After this setback, I have been no where close to being as hopeful as I was before regarding my desire to be back together with him. 

I am struggling so much with letting go, and with raising my vibrations this last couple of days/week. I'm also worried that he will find someone new, and I feel so lonely and forgotten, not only by him but also by friends. I struggle to feel gratitude and I can't even seem to manifest small things. Knowing how the LOA works, I am also worried and scared that the state I am in now will just make things worse, since I am scared I will manifest negative things due to my negative state of being. 

Someone please tell me what to do...

 
Do something right now that makes you feel good, whether it be watching a film, going for a walk, soaking in the bath, whatever makes you feel good. It doesn't matter. I've felt like you've been feeling sometimes.  Don't dwell on these negatives. They will pass if you let them. Don't try so hard, and don't worry. This is supposed to be fun. You've had some success, so think about that and that you can succeed again.

Last edited by Cynthia (10/07/2017 12:45 pm)

mb16 wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

mb16 wrote:

I am feeling so incredibly low, so sad, and so distraught. My vibes are so low, and I am doubting everything. I am even starting to doubt LOA, my manifestation powers and that my desire will manifest. I had some success, where my ex texted me, and I was so happy. I was also worrying, and I think I attracted the setback that occurred. After this setback, I have been no where close to being as hopeful as I was before regarding my desire to be back together with him. 

I am struggling so much with letting go, and with raising my vibrations this last couple of days/week. I'm also worried that he will find someone new, and I feel so lonely and forgotten, not only by him but also by friends. I struggle to feel gratitude and I can't even seem to manifest small things. Knowing how the LOA works, I am also worried and scared that the state I am in now will just make things worse, since I am scared I will manifest negative things due to my negative state of being. 

Someone please tell me what to do...

 
Do something right now that makes you feel good, whether it be watching a film, going for a walk, soaking in the bath, whatever makes you feel good. It doesn't matter. I've felt like you've been feeling sometimes. Don't dwell on these negatives. They will pass if you let them. Don't try so hard, and don't worry. This is supposed to be fun.

Even then, I can't seem to stop my mind from all the thinking. I can take a bath and stand there and still think about my fears and feel this bad feeling. I miss him a lot and even when I meditate, or visualise about him I start crying. It wasn't like this before I experienced the setback, and I am scared that the setback has left my situation unfixable. I am trying to trust in the Universe and God but I really can't. 

 
I have felt the same way. I've had times when visualising made me feel the lack of my POI and made me cry, so what I did was to stop visualising at those times. I realised that I was feeling recurrent resentment toward him, and I used the ho'oponopono prayer and it got rid of the resentment and it hasn't come back. You can use the ho'oponopono prayer on anybody and anything including yourself.  It's to clear negative feelings, essentially. They've got short demos on youtube. It worked a treat for me. These are the two I used.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=5s&v=u3anR8I5TD8

https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=266s&v=rNRKaTrrQ_0

mb16 wrote:

For the ho'oponopono prayer, are you supposed to identify something, like a situation, or is it more that you think of someone or yourself and then forgive yourself or that someone?

 
The videos are only a few minutes long each and can explain it better than I can, but you can use it on whatever you need to.

An important thing about ho'oponopono is that you have to mean it and be sincere about it, not just go through the motions. When I did it on resentment toward my POI, I got very emotional and shed many tears, but after that the resentment was gone and after several hours felt absolutely gone and has never returned. When I was first looking for ho'oponopono on youtube, I found recordings that people had made that repeatedly played the statements used over and over for as long as an hour or more, in my opinion a pointless waste of time, because you have to put some thought, feeling and sincerity into it, not mindless repetition.

Last edited by Cynthia (10/07/2017 2:02 pm)

Selfloveiskey wrote:

It's not unfixable my guy was dating someone else and it seemed like I was forgotten and look where I am at in a matter of 2 months. I had to focus on me and it feels amazing that I want to focus on me not just to get more but because it feels good and that is my focus. As I told you you need to focus on you and it takes practice to move them from your mind.

Did you ever lose hope? I am scared because I am losing hope and faith that it will happen. I always had faith and knew it was gonna happen, and everything I read about this says that as long as you have faith and know deep inside that they will be back, then they will. Now that I am losing hope, well it all just seems impossible. 

Selfloveiskey wrote:

mb16 wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

It's not unfixable my guy was dating someone else and it seemed like I was forgotten and look where I am at in a matter of 2 months. I had to focus on me and it feels amazing that I want to focus on me not just to get more but because it feels good and that is my focus. As I told you you need to focus on you and it takes practice to move them from your mind.

Did you ever lose hope? I am scared because I am losing hope and faith that it will happen. I always had faith and knew it was gonna happen, and everything I read about this says that as long as you have faith and know deep inside that they will be back, then they will. Now that I am losing hope, well it all just seems impossible. 

I did plenty of times the most hopeless I felt was at the end of august . I felt like he didn't love me he was happy with her she was better etc and then now he tells me he loves me and all this awesome stuff that he isn't happy with her that I'm better etc. seee and I kept visualizing and stuff . I took a break and worked on me and the worked on me and visualized as long as I felt good but I started off focusing on me

Thank you, you always make me feel so much better. You will be the first one I'll tell when I get some progress.