I'm in! I started the challenge before, but never finished it. I got discouraged. But now I realize I have nothing to lose in just doing it, so I'm gonna try again. Tomorrow will be my day 1!

Little Red Robin wrote:

I could do with a 25 day challenge to do something every day to feel better.

Good! How are y'all doin?

lovelyislife9 wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Little Red Robin wrote:

I could do with a 25 day challenge to do something every day to feel better.

Good! How are y'all doin?

Honestly, I feel I've given up. I'm having a hard time believing he'd be back. We haven't seen or spoken to each other in months. I wanted to do the challenge again, but I'm struggling believing it will make a difference. But I still want him. What should I do?

First focus on you. Take a break and work on getting your vibe up. You should make you happy first doing these things out of desperation doesn't make it manifest any quicker or at all. I was once there . I worked on me first and I felt a whole lot better so I wasn't doing these exercises desperately I did them and let them go. Start with self love seriously it is the foundation we don't need these people to be happy they are an accessory not a necessity.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Yes but you did still regularly see him; what about people who aren't in regular contact or live far away and don't see them at all? That's when people start to get stressed.

What I started learning was it didn't matter if I saw him or not what mattered was how I felt because when I felt better things started falling into place. The focus is still on the other person and it should be on you. If you focus on them you are giving all your power away and yes you want them yes I wanted him but you can't manifest anything until you start loving yourself . You can't trust anything if you don't trust yourself. It starts with you and inside . I have heard from Veronica Agnes even stories etc that when people started letting go and felt happy even far away a Facebook request came in or a text or anything it's like a miracle but that is because you were in a positive space. I very much believe that things work out when you focus on you I have seen it. Not loving yourself means you don't feel worthy and when you do t feel worthy and think you can't have it the universe will keep it shut because well you don't feel deserving of it think you can't have it so you won't have it. It won't open any doors communication anything until you feel better

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lovelyislife9 wrote:

I'm not quite desperate anymore. I'm back at school and have been making new friends. I've focusing on my music, and practicing self love. Should I just tell myself he's not coming back? Or what?

So the 25 day challenge is purely to get this bloke back?