I cancelled meeting up with him what's the point the universe has made it very clear I'm not going to get what I want.

Sorry guys I don't want to love anyone else...really I want a better not loving relationship with him but it looks like the universe is showing me that's not happening . So I cancelled my meet up with him . I'm gonna try to forget today and then I guess I ll be looking for someone to settle with cause I do want a relationship not because I need it to show me I'm loved I'm still doing that it's just I like relationships so eventually I ll have to settle with someone I guess.

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Sorry guys I don't want to love anyone else...really I want a better not loving relationship with him but it looks like the universe is showing me that's not happening . So I cancelled my meet up with him . I'm gonna try to forget today and then I guess I ll be looking for someone to settle with cause I do want a relationship not because I need it to show me I'm loved I'm still doing that it's just I like relationships so eventually I ll have to settle with someone I guess.

 
I hope if you find somebody else that you'll be a lot happier with him but that you won't 'settle' just to have somebody. I didn't even realise I was settling when I married my ex-husband, but I was, for a lot less than I wanted and deserved in a marriage, and I was very unhappy.

I'm just upset ...I had been doing so good thought these were signs..but it's like he seems unhappy with her and yet he's still there...I cancelled my meet up and am just gonna do nothing right now ..the universe seems to not deliver ..I'm still trying to trust but i can't see how this will lead me to my desire. Thanks for the responses

Kavik wrote:

Sorry about that, but try to focus on yourself, don't put your attention on what is he doing, that doesn't matter, just focus on what you want. 

The universe has a binder of me repeating the same thing I want over and over again lol. I am going to focus on me because it feels good but I just I m having a hard time believing this will work out. I seem to get bread crumbs of hope followed by this stuff for no reason and the thing is even today when I said "see your happy" he said "relaxed and happy are different things but yeah . You?" I mean basically in a cryptic way saying he isn't happy. So I'm not saying anything now I'm gonna send him a message tonight to cancel next week cause I don't want to send too many messages at once . I ll see him at the next group event which happens to be a party and my birthday the following week that he wants to go to.