sillyromantic wrote:

 lol I think my ex does that too. He text me like once a week now when he's bored and acts like we're friends now after we had no contact for 4.5 months plus he's with rebound which I'm sure is not going to last anyway but so confusing, like why do they text you out of the blue if they don't want to get back together and are with someone else?  

What sort of things does he say in his texts?

Cynthia wrote:

Dan2015 wrote:

One thing that confuses me is.     Why people believe in loa but tend to think of things in a non loa way most of the time

I mean. I’m not saying don’t use common sense or don’t think practical.    But with loa you’re suppose to be more of a “dreamer” or more fairy tale based


With loa you’re suppose to think of things more on a positive side(especially if you’re still happy even without the specific person, I mean why not?  What do you have to lose)

For you.   Of course non loa and practical thinking would be. “He’s manipulating me to keep me around”.   But if you believe that, what’s the sense of believing in loa? Where basically anything can happen if you’re in alignment?

A more loa way.  Would be to look at it on a positive side and know you’ll get things you want


Ugh.  Times like this is when I wish people like Cherished,Sam,etc still came on here

 

I agree with you. That wasn't the OP's belief at first, she was just confused, but sadly after the non-LOA reply she got it appears that she now thinks that as well. It's all too easy to believe the worst case scenario or at least something negative in the non-LOA world. I thought forums such as this were to help and encourage a more positive attitude of creating one's own reality, not reinforcing what the rest of the world thinks.

Cynthia thank you for being alert enough to recognize that. If I'm honest I DON'T know how LOA thinkers think and here we are..not replying as LOA thinkers but basic judgemental humans...smh.

I respect the first comment...that is a reality...not one that I want obviously but respectfully a reality.

I didn't get on a few days to process how I was feeling and i came back only to read his reply...still not a LOA discussion but judgement...I appreciate your reply to him...humanity is absolutely admirable! And I pray your day/life pays you right back for your kind reply.

MissMiles906 wrote:

Dan2015 wrote:

One thing that confuses me is.     Why people believe in loa but tend to think of things in a non loa way most of the time

I mean. I’m not saying don’t use common sense or don’t think practical.    But with loa you’re suppose to be more of a “dreamer” or more fairy tale based


With loa you’re suppose to think of things more on a positive side(especially if you’re still happy even without the specific person, I mean why not?  What do you have to lose)

For you.   Of course non loa and practical thinking would be. “He’s manipulating me to keep me around”.   But if you believe that, what’s the sense of believing in loa? Where basically anything can happen if you’re in alignment?

A more loa way.  Would be to look at it on a positive side and know you’ll get things you want


Ugh.  Times like this is when I wish people like Cherished,Sam,etc still came on here

Dan, I'm almost taking offensive to your reply. Surly you understand everyone's"common sense" is different because NO ONE'S situation is common!

If you're further along in LOA...my suggestion...act like it and respond in such a way that is helpful and not critical. That ia what this forum is for correct?

The room I chose was a "discussion" room because I'm as far along. My title said "now what" making it textually obvious that I'm not sure what to do next.

We battle with our life experiences and as the person who replied to me with "bread crumbs" it IS a considerable thought because that what discussions are.

Have I been lead on in the past...sure....so I can respect that point of view from a non-loa perspective.

Would you like to offer a pro&loa perspective?

I should have cleared things up.      I was half asleep and just ranting


I don’t mean it for anyone in general      I just mean it feels at times on all loa forums and also things like twitter,etc. people who have been involved in loa forever(not anyone specific)   Aren’t totally “in on” loa


It’s just like how there’s Christians and others who believe in God. Who show no faith, even though that’s what their religion is based on


It is hard to have faith sometimes.   So that’s not a problem and everyone does have their own perspective on things.        It’s hard.  But for your situation.  I would try my best to take it as a good sign and “believe” that there’s more to come

It’s not the easiest thing to believe and have faith at times.    But honestly miracles do happen.  Even the most unexpected things.     


I feel Veronica and others had great things to say

IlunaMeisu wrote:

I'm happy and so thankful for when he reached out after being silent and blocked. Whenever I text he instantly replies and I can feel his love so I just smile! I know it's here!

Path of least resistance, I am over the moon.

Awwww keep it up!