We've all done it! I've been there too. All you did was get drunk, you didn't do anything more embarrassing than that did you? Are you bothered this woman will tell your ex you made a fool of yourself? Is that the key issue?

I'd do nothing, just laugh it off and if anyone mentions it just say you had the hangover from hell and change the subject. People will be more focused on the wedding now than the hen party.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

We've all done it! I've been there too. All you did was get drunk, you didn't do anything more embarrassing than that did you? Are you bothered this woman will tell your ex you made a fool of yourself? Is that the key issue?

I'd do nothing, just laugh it off and if anyone mentions it just say you had the hangover from hell and change the subject. People will be more focused on the wedding now than the hen party.

A couple of the girls started talking to me in the bathroom about him and the breakup and I started crying. The other woman didn't see that and they are my friends whom I haven't seen since it happened. I don't think I would have cried if I wasn't drunk. I also cried after I threw up on the bus because I was embarrassed but that was outside and I don't think anyone else saw that.

I never got into any confrontations or even talked to that other woman. Just drank too much and feel stupid. No one seems to be mad at me but I'm hating on myself.

Don't worry you are fine it's going to be fine focus on what you want. I actually messed up ...I was drunk last night and my friend convinced me to invite the guy I went on two dates with . I did and he and I were holding hands and kissing ...:I feel horrible about it this morning ( we didn't sleep together thank god I learned from that) I feel awful because I gave this guy an impression that I don't plan to keep onto..:.all because I was drunk....I want and need to be honest with him but I am not sure how to do that today because I feel I should wait. To add on it looks like to my guy I'm completely moved on which can be beneficial. I know the universe knows I want my guy i just need the universe to guide me on how to gently work this. Anyway I get the worry but we have the power I manifested stuff before so I know since I asked the universe and told it how I want to handle this it will find a way and show me. You can do it too don't dwell on that night just understand you are human and you can still work this out for yourself

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Here's a silly story, I really liked this guy in my college class. We went to a house party and I told him I liked him when I was drunk, I then proceeded to vomit on his shoes. We got together and it was never brought up again.

That's a great story 😊

Bugg88 wrote:

Thank you so much for your supportive messages everyone, I will work on forgiving myself and letting it go.

One thing I don't understand is that for weeks now I have been doing so much work to raise my vibration and learning anything I can about LOA. I thought I was doing so good, but this event going the way it did makes me wonder if I'm making any progress at all? Is this just another echo from past negative thoughts and feelings or could it be a positive development that I just can't see yet?

It's alcohol !!!

I made a total fool of myself at a party with a guy I liked. He was in a relationship and he and I had a bit of an argument when he said he knew I liked him. I went all defensive and then drank too much, threw up, hangover next day etc. Felt awful. Then the following week we were all out and I got drunk again, this time I walked into the gents toilet by mistake and the only other person in was him. Total accident, but I felt a fool and thought he thought I had done it deliberately.

He moved away not that many months later and we had a chat and I apologised and he accepted it (not so much apologising for being drunk but for badgering him).

He stayed with his partner, married her, they have two children and are very happy, and seeing him now I wonder how I ever fancied him. He was wrong for me. I know that is not the outcome you want, but what I am saying is that in the long run it doesn't matter, I am sure.