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1 - Selfloveiskey
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So tonight
We joked and seemed like friends. Towards the end of the night when we got more tipsy we were joking but it got more mean? Unresolved issues maybes? When I left people knew I was going on a date he heard it from them not me .as soon as I left he said have fun on your date in text. I said thanks and then said sorry I was being a butt I was trying to match his sarcasm. he said I mean it I only want the best for you and I said thanks glad yours makes you happy ( meaning his relationship).He said it won't. I didn't know if he was talking about my first comment about me being sarcastic I or him being happy with her. I then assumed the sarcastic comment since I didn't want to get my hopes up. I said sorry my sarcasm will never match yours. While I was typing this he said how many dates have you been on with this guy. I then replied my message to him about the sarcasm and answered 2 dates. His reply to my sarcasm comment as that's not what I meant and then he said good about the date. So basically he was referring to not being happy with her maybe?He then reiterated that he wants me to be happy. I then said if he needs to talk I'm here he said the same and said he just wants me to be happy. I said I may need to talk he is good to vent to . He then said I m tipsy speak now or forever hold your peace which I thought was weird. He said he was fine but he's here if I need to talk. I then asked again if he was happy etc and he never responded. I'm not sure what to do here as it seems my date was mentioned by others not me so now I want to remove that. Also I m thinking this is good lol. It seems he isn't happy with her and apparently my date bother d him so much he couldn't wait to text me?I know this is good but I'm curious if your thoughts and advice on my next steps.
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- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: So tonight
I really would keep it simple and not give him lots of information and explanations about anything.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- Selfloveiskey
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Re: So tonight
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I really would keep it simple and not give him lots of information and explanations about anything.
Really didn't want him to know about the dates cause I have no intention to make him jealous I just need to live. Anyway that was last night so I'm gonna keep doing the same stuff. I just was hoping for more clear signs not anything I m trying to interpret.im not sure if I interpreted his words correctly. I'm just gonna keep doing what I'm doing .but because he knows of the dates ( mad about that) i don't want that to hinder anything .i ll just ask the universe to make the way
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Thread Starter- Selfloveiskey
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Re: So tonight
Any other opinions? I'm just really curious if I was over looking into what he said. You know excitement of when things happen opinions are welcome
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Thread Starter- Cynthia
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Re: So tonight
Any other opinions? I'm just really curious if I was over looking into what he said. You know excitement of when things happen opinions are welcome
Since you asked, I think you are overanalysing every little thing that happens. He said this, what does that mean? He said that, what do you think he meant by that? You're obsessing about every little petty thing that is going on now instead of seeing the big picture end result you want. I've read some of your posts, and if I remember correctly you made a comment about how needy you were on Lanie's forum a year ago. You are worrying too much about what your POI thinks. It never hurts to let them think they have some competition..
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- Selfloveiskey
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Re: So tonight
Any other opinions? I'm just really curious if I was over looking into what he said. You know excitement of when things happen opinions are welcome
Since you asked, I think you are overanalysing every little thing that happens. He said this, what does that mean? He said that, what do you think he meant by that? You're obsessing about every little petty thing that is going on now instead of seeing the big picture end result you want. I've read some of your posts, and if I remember correctly you made a comment about how needy you were on Lanie's forum a year ago. You are worrying too much about what your POI thinks. It never hurts to let them think they have some competition..
I'm still better just no one was answering and it seems good to me.
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Thread Starter- Seeker
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Re: So tonight
Overanalyzing shows lack...and lack lowers your vibration...so focus more on the end result rather than. All these little details.....i had to learn to do the same thing...
- Selfloveiskey
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Yeaaaa I'm gonna focus on the end result. The guy I had been seeing went out with me and my friends last night so my guy and my mutual friends have the impression I've moved on. I feel like this is a mess....so I know I manifested this so I'm gonna manifest me and my guy. I really want to make sure he knows how much I love him. I'm gonna send that in energy of course. I know I can manifest this. I also want to manifest breaking it to the other guy gently that I am not into a relationship with him. So I'm asking the universe to guide me in how I should do this.i know it can be done but show me the way.
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Thread Starter- Lifesagas
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Re: So tonight
It's great that your mood is better and you're trying to implement self-love but if you're really honest with yourself, is there much difference in these kind of posts to the ones a few months ago before you deleted them all?
It's still all about him and trying to analyse a look or a word or a post on social media and wanting people here to try and do the same when we can't. Because it will make you feel better and I get that, but it shows you don't feel as confident as you're trying to be.
Don't slip back. Focus on you and nothing to do with him. You don't need to send him love energetically or otherwise. He KNOWS! You've made it very clear over a very long period of time lol. You might be feeling better and that's great but your energy will still be reflective of what you post here - I love you, I want you, I can't even consider anyone else, it doesn't matter if you're with someone else, I'm here waiting and hoping.
If you still don't want to let go (as you've been advised by loads of people on loads of occasions lol!) then just focus on you exclusively.
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