Cynthia wrote:

princessgirl87 wrote:

Are there any free subliminals online for closing your heart or getting rid of the ability to fall in love?
I see so many subliminals geared towards the opposite?
Lol its so amusing...
Anyway, I want to stop falling in love because I feel it's unnecessary...
Is the closest thing, like, a monk of some kind?
Maybe I want to be like a monk.
My life was simpler when I wasnt in love...
Thanks in advance.

P.S.: And DON'T mention SELF LOVE. I'm sure this is the right path.

 
I know how you feel.
Not subliminals and not free but there is a  hypnosis recording by Rachael Eccles called Feel Nothing. I haven't heard it, and it may be to feel nothing for a specific person. Dick Sutphen has got some altered state recordings that might be suitable on his website. He's got quite a large selection on there, and I've got quite a few. There are some to do with detaching from ending relationships and cutting past ties and many others.
I think maybe you have been hurt and don't want any more pain, and these could help you get over pain you're still feeling from one or more past relationships. One of them worked a treat for not feeling anything any more for my ex-husband, and it had the interesting effect of making me not feel anything for somebody else as well at the same time.

Thanks! Looking at the sites now...
Yes, I have been hurt and dont see an end to my emotional turmoil.
 

I definitely understand when things have been painful you want to shut yourself off and you need that now you know exactly what you need . I do hope you don't give up on love though it's a beautiful thing. Do what you feel will make you happy . Hope to have an update from you soon!

80saeaak wrote:

Please don't block yourself from loving. I did that. Then when I fell in love I let fear take over. Stop dating if you must, but don't shut out love. That will hurt you so much in the long run. Nothing hurts more than knowing you met your soulmate and that you let fear win. You will regret shutting out feelings. You'll never regret loving the wrong ones once you find the right one.

I encourage you to find Abraham Hicks videos on contrast. The things you don't want guide you to find the things you do want.

Agreed you may need a break and focus on you but I agree with 80saeaak blocking yourself off because you are just scared is not the way to go. Take some time to heal and focus on you do what you need to to feel better and after that time I encourage you to open up to love again.