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day 11
ok so im having doubts. i know some of you read my scriot and it helps . i know some of yoh have read the two last times i saw and spoke to him. i just now have doubts the exepreinces i have had with him recently how do i know he isnt just tryjng to be a friend?. i want to physically see that he has romantic interest in me. i keep overriding my thoughts with i love me just wondering if yall who read my story see that its just friendship.
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Re: day 11
You can tell yourself 'I love me' all day and it'll make you feel good but if your underlying thought is 'but I want him to love me more' then it won't be very helpful in terms of manifestation.
It's great you've got this new attitude of self- love but you need to be so full of it that it really doesn't matter what he does. You'll be so full of self-love and self-respect that what he thinks or does won't matter to you anymore, you won't be waiting or doubting or trying to analyse his behaviour or thoughts. You'll be confident that he should offer you what you want and if he doesn't - that's his loss.
You are making loads of progress but still seem quite focused on him rather than you. Self - love isn't just about affirmations or books, it's being 100% confident in your worth and what you can offer and not settling for less than you want and not needing to try and make that happen.
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Lifesagas wrote:
You can tell yourself 'I love me' all day and it'll make you feel good but if your underlying thought is 'but I want him to love me more' then it won't be very helpful in terms of manifestation.
It's great you've got this new attitude of self- love but you need to be so full of it that it really doesn't matter what he does. You'll be so full of self-love and self-respect that what he thinks or does won't matter to you anymore, you won't be waiting or doubting or trying to analyse his behaviour or thoughts. You'll be confident that he should offer you what you want and if he doesn't - that's his loss.
You are making loads of progress but still seem quite focused on him rather than you. Self - love isn't just about affirmations or books, it's being 100% confident in your worth and what you can offer and not settling for less than you want and not needing to try and make that happen.
i just want to physically see something in the form of where i am manifestint my desire and clearly as yall know i have but sometimes i feel it is more then friends and sometimes not. i want a clear thing of romance. if te universe is gonna show me something be clear i have to have things spelt out to me literally lol. i have been on dates with other guys but i dont want them i want him. dating others doesnt appeal to me i tried. i do mean it when i say i love myself i feel better but i m not asking him to love me more then i love myself im simply just wanting the universe to show me where he is coming from and asking yalls opinion ln it too. its normal to wonder i know what i want his behavior to be though lol.
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Thread Starter- Selfloveiskey
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To add I do get what you are saying I shouldn't care and I partly don't now it goes back and forth . He is coming to the party Friday I want him to come alone cause it's better for me if he does . Telling myself regardless it's ok
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You can tell yourself 'I love me' all day and it'll make you feel good but if your underlying thought is 'but I want him to love me more' then it won't be very helpful in terms of manifestation.
It's great you've got this new attitude of self- love but you need to be so full of it that it really doesn't matter what he does. You'll be so full of self-love and self-respect that what he thinks or does won't matter to you anymore, you won't be waiting or doubting or trying to analyse his behaviour or thoughts. You'll be confident that he should offer you what you want and if he doesn't - that's his loss.
You are making loads of progress but still seem quite focused on him rather than you. Self - love isn't just about affirmations or books, it's being 100% confident in your worth and what you can offer and not settling for less than you want and not needing to try and make that happen.
Wow! So true! I'm also working on self love and what you wrote gives me a direction on what I have to achieve. I've said this before but Universe works in mysterious ways. This was my question to myself today and I just got my answer through you. Thank you!
Living in gratitude, loving yourself, asking and let go! Trust the process!
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To add I do get what you are saying I shouldn't care and I partly don't now it goes back and forth . He is coming to the party Friday I want him to come alone cause it's better for me if he does . Telling myself regardless it's ok
Hi Selfloveiskey, I'm on the same journey as you. But right now, after I contacted my ex and got a cold response, I realised that I was not on the high vibration still as required. So, now am just concentrating on getting my vibes up by Self love. I've stopped doing meditations, affirmations, visualisations for him. I do all these things for myself. I'm feeling better and in past 3-4days have not thought of him at all and not even missing him. I'm fine with whatever time it takes but I'll start doing the affirmations and visualisations for 'us' only when I've reached a higher space.
You already have manifested small things like he coming to the pre screening and a few things more, so don't spoil it by doubting what the future brings you. You have been an inspiration for me....just believe that what you are asking for is what you will get. And here it seems you are asking for him not coming 'alone' . Don't do self love to just get him. Do self love just for yourself.
Living in gratitude, loving yourself, asking and let go! Trust the process!
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Thanks. Oh I have been doing self love for me cause it feels good there are other things I want to manifest too that have nothing to do with him. I just am excited partly and want to see things manifest but the I love me stuff and that that is because I feel good and stuff it makes me feel good .im so glad I could help you and stuff 😊I m glad you are doing the self love too
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