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He broke up with me
Yesterday, my boyfriend broke up with me via whatsapp for no valid reason. Well, on Friday he wanted me to come over and I said no, I am not going to drive in the dark. I am a beginner in driving and he lives 45 minutes apart. He reacted angrily And he refused to Properly talk it out. On Saturday, he said, I could come over at 10 pm but I didnt come. He invited people and did a house party without telling me and posted a pic with 2 women on his sofa on snapchat. On Sunday, he texted me saying hes cold and stuff but I was mad because he didnt make an effort to sort things out. Then, he completely lost his mind and told me that We‘re done. That he doesnt have the strenth for our relationship anymore.i didnt reply so far because his text messages were really too much to handle for me.
Even though everything was alright before. Even though he told me that he loves me. He always showed me his love .
He is just my type and I love him. How can I rewind this?
She believed she could, so she did.
- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: He broke up with me
Breaking up with someone via WhatsApp? How childish and pathetic of him. Are you sure this is what you want?
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- Gratitude21
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Re: He broke up with me
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Breaking up with someone via WhatsApp? How childish and pathetic of him. Are you sure this is what you want?
I agree. My partner did the same with me. Broke up on WhatsApp and saying that he will call the next day but never did. And when I messaged after 2months, was decent to respond and ask how am I doing. But he again said that he'll call me the next day but never did. I read a post on this forum about respect being equally important as love and we tend to forget that normally. If we love ourselves we will never allow something like this to happen to us.
Living in gratitude, loving yourself, asking and let go! Trust the process!
- Cynthia
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Re: He broke up with me
Are you saying that someone who is cowardly, immature, unstable, and disrespectful and goes off on you for no apparent reason and who isn't man enough to speak with you directly but takes the coward's way out to break up with you by using whatsapp is your type? Don't set your sights so low. He doesn't deserve you. Work on your self esteem and self love and you'll wonder why you ever were willing to be treated this way and why you ever wasted even one second of your life on him. You can do so much better.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
- Selfloveiskey
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Re: He broke up with me
First work on self love . People can be a reflection of how you feel about you because you allow that behavior. My personal opinion is that people change how they treat you when you treat yourself better. I also have had the everyone is you pushed out experience and the way my guy treated me before and how he is treating me currently ( yes there are updates) is completely different and that I base on is because I feel I love myself more and will not stop. I remind myself to be happy for me not because he is jn it. I like you manifested my guy back before and it always ended. Why ? Because I didn't do self love I was so focused on getting him back. Now I focus on me and it's nice to have him but do I need him no? Heck I went on dates before these updates and had a lot of guys interested in me. This was nice because I saw hey other guys are out there. However I still wanted him . Anyway focus on loving you and not just this but other aspects of your life will change.
- Gratitude21
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Re: He broke up with me
First work on self love . People can be a reflection of how you feel about you because you allow that behavior. My personal opinion is that people change how they treat you when you treat yourself better. I also have had the everyone is you pushed out experience and the way my guy treated me before and how he is treating me currently ( yes there are updates) is completely different and that I base on is because I feel I love myself more and will not stop. I remind myself to be happy for me not because he is jn it. I like you manifested my guy back before and it always ended. Why ? Because I didn't do self love I was so focused on getting him back. Now I focus on me and it's nice to have him but do I need him no? Heck I went on dates before these updates and had a lot of guys interested in me. This was nice because I saw hey other guys are out there. However I still wanted him . Anyway focus on loving you and not just this but other aspects of your life will change.
Hi Selfloveiskey, I like your transformation. It's very inspiring and encouraging. All the best to you.
Living in gratitude, loving yourself, asking and let go! Trust the process!
- Selfloveiskey
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Re: He broke up with me
First work on self love . People can be a reflection of how you feel about you because you allow that behavior. My personal opinion is that people change how they treat you when you treat yourself better. I also have had the everyone is you pushed out experience and the way my guy treated me before and how he is treating me currently ( yes there are updates) is completely different and that I base on is because I feel I love myself more and will not stop. I remind myself to be happy for me not because he is jn it. I like you manifested my guy back before and it always ended. Why ? Because I didn't do self love I was so focused on getting him back. Now I focus on me and it's nice to have him but do I need him no? Heck I went on dates before these updates and had a lot of guys interested in me. This was nice because I saw hey other guys are out there. However I still wanted him . Anyway focus on loving you and not just this but other aspects of your life will change.
Hi Selfloveiskey, I like your transformation. It's very inspiring and encouraging. All the best to you.
Thank you so much ask the people here I was terrible lol but it's nice loving yourself I'm not all the way there and I want to be. But the difference it makes is amazing . I keep saying that over and over again
- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: He broke up with me
Are you saying that someone who is cowardly, immature, unstable, and disrespectful and goes off on you for no apparent reason and who isn't man enough to speak with you directly but takes the coward's way out to break up with you by using whatsapp is your type? Don't set your sights so low. He doesn't deserve you. Work on your self esteem and self love and you'll wonder why you ever were willing to be treated this way and why you ever wasted even one second of your life on him. You can do so much better.
Hear hear Cynthia.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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