- Cynthia
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I'd like to add that, like others here, I have been working on self love, and in just a short time I feel so much better about myself. I still believe we'll be together, but if not, I can be okay with that now. There is a hypnosis dvd that has really helped me, more than any other single thing. It is called Love and Believe in Yourself by Dick Sutphen. I don't know him, and I don't get anything by recommending it, other than possibly the satisfaction of helping somebody. He sells it on his website.
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I know guys. I need to stop repeating the same story. But what good does it do if I just don't believe? Damn. Sorry I don't mean to sound negative Hahaha! That "damn" was more out of frustration than sorrow.
Just hard to do haha! I really appreciate the help guys
it really means a lot! Even if I don't believe I can do this, I know I can. At some point I'll know I can LOL!!
Thanks guys I just want to say I'm incredibly thankful to have you guys in my life even if it is just over a forum
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YesIWILL wrote:
I know guys. I need to stop repeating the same story. But what good does it do if I just don't believe? Damn. Sorry I don't mean to sound negative Hahaha! That "damn" was more out of frustration than sorrow.
Just hard to do haha! I really appreciate the help guys
Thanks guys
Well then if you don't believe there is nothing else for it but to put this person out of your mind and create an amazing life with you at the centre. That will align with your beliefs and be incredibly liberating. Just think about it. No more worry about her, who she's with or what she's doing. Not a moment wasted of angst about what she thinks of you because you're no longer bothered. Total freedom to focus on your life, which aligns with your beliefs.
If you don't believe the situation can be turned around you're actually in a good place to make progress. There's nothing else to do but move on without wasting time fighting against what you truly believe.
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Also: What do you actually want out of life other than this person, have you ever thought about that? If you could design the perfect life what would it contain?
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- Cynthia
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I think what he really wants is to be able to believe and is looking for encouragement to help him do that.
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I think what he really wants is to be able to believe and is looking for encouragement to help him do that.
But we've been doing that for years now. I don't know what to say anymore as he keeps coming back saying he has no faith and doesn't believe. We can't change someone's beliefs.
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Sometimes the first step on the path to relating to others is to decide you like being alone and want to truly know yourself.
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I think what he really wants is to be able to believe and is looking for encouragement to help him do that.
But we've been doing that for years now. I don't know what to say anymore as he keeps coming back saying he has no faith and doesn't believe. We can't change someone's beliefs.
It might seem like years to you, but it says you joined last year, and I joined this year, not that long ago. Some people have little or no faith, and apparently he is one of them. I think he needs more encouragement than other people, and I think you can change other people's beliefs. I think he wants to believe. It probably gets boring and tiresome to keep trying to convince him, though. He sounds depressed to me. He definitely needs to put the focus back on himself and his life. It's out of balance with all of that obsessing over that woman with all of the most negative assumptions possible.
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It's been going on since 2014 on different forums. I agree with you Cynthia.
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Like I said I saw a miracle in a week ! With self love. Self love works I mean you gotta keep it up self talk and such but when I was doing this intensely everything seeemed to change and I was miserable a week before and no hope. I got hope through self love and had that major interaction with my guy. Of course time frame doesn't matter but because I was so wrapped up in self love and when I thought of him it was love. As y'all know it's not about controlling others with techniques and stuff it's about being happy and love and people coming back to you because by free will they love your vibe .
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