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So I have been doing self love super happy about it . I have been doing the 25 day challenge ( acting like I have him so if it confused some of you sorry lol) . I had gotten two guys asking for my phone number last Monday which never has happened so I thought I'm vibrating right lol. As you know if you read my success Wednesday we'll here is the whole story. So Wednesday I had plans with a friend and my other friend was doing a pre screening of it (he was going). I wanted to go to that but I already committed to my plans plus the pre screening sounded full. I know that I don't force opportunities they will come so I just was like its whatever. Well my friend wanted to reschduele our plans cause her dog was sick. We did for Thursday. Then I was like I still want to go to the pre screening well 5 mins later I get a message from my friend hosting the pre screening asking if I wanted to go she had one more seat!!! I was floored lol. Then I go and he did come alone. We were joking a bit. When he hugged everyone he hugged me and silently said " well look at you".( not sure what that means). Watched the movie (we didn't sit next to each other). Well when I was leaving he was walking behind me asking if I was ok and my other friend was too (it was the pre screening of IT so scary). My friend left and he was still walking with me. We talked a bit it small talk but it felt like something was lingering. I then said I was leaving and he goes " you are leaving already?" or something like that. I said yea its late , I left. Well then I get a text from him asking if I was going to be ok. He then teased me a bit about being scared and then said well anyway "let me know if ya need anything" He then said we are good and he hopes I m doing good. I said yes and the same. He said that he is doing better . we then ended it there and said good night. So weird night but I liked it. Now I refuse to see his facebook the universe will have to tell me when he is single. He seemed like he cared more then a friend though. The look he gave me was well I want it to be romantic put it that way. It seemed . So success! Wellll last night I was in Facebook and I saw that he was with her cause they were with two friends I follow ( I unfollowed him so I don't see that thing)...that really discouraged me in not sure how to handle it it's stuff like that that makes me feel like it's not working .so I got upset and then I work d to make myself better so went to bed feeling fine and working to do the same . I find saying I love myself over and over again helps a lot. but it just why did I see that? This makes me have huge doubt cause clearly I was vibrating high. Also it bothers me because he said he's doing better . I know it's interpretation but I can't help but think is it because of her. I was sooooo confident that he was breaking up with her I had a really really strong feeling. So it's a bit discouraging. Today I'm gonna do my self love and stuff and go out enjoy. But how do you deal with it when stuff like that happens? It's like the universe has a mind of its own which is not suppose to be the case. Plus maybe he was just being friends or something Wednesday if just seemed like he cared a lot more.
Note I am just asking I am doing self love to feel good and let go this situation put a snag in trust but I am doing self love cause it has totally helped me feel better and I feel the positive stuff that happened was due to that .
Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/09/2017 9:14 am)
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Not trying to be negative just trying to keep my vibe up I just want to know how to do that when things happen that don't match the vibe you were having by two days before they did.
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I understand how you feel, but try to focus only on yourself, you don't need to think if he is with this girl or not, because if you think on that, you're putting your attention on they together and that's not what you want.Β
It's hard, I know it, but you can do it.Β
So, my advice is to focus on yourself, he is going to come back to you, sooner or later.Β
Don't be patient, because being patient means that you're waiting for him, and that generates resistance, just let it go, that doesn't mean forget him, means be happy and live day by day, working on yourself, going out with your friends, practice a sport, a hobby, anything that makes you happy.Β
Do your visualizations, RS or whathever you want, but do it like a hobby, don't expecting nothing, just do it because feels good.Β
Last edited by Kavik (9/09/2017 10:53 pm)
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I'm actually just gonna do self love...I tried to plan a date and that fell through so it's like if the universe doesn't want me to move on it's keeping me stuck. I want a relationship. I have been doing self love and felt great injntend to keep doing t but I want a relationship and it's like if I can't have him then why not this new guy and then I said yes and then something happened that stopped the date for good. The guy isn't even a bad guy.
Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/09/2017 11:07 pm)
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Kavik wrote:
I understand how you feel, but try to focus only on yourself, you don't need to think if he is with this girl or not, because if you think on that, you're putting your attention on they together and that's not what you want.Β
It's hard, I know it, but you can do it.Β
So, my advice is to focus on yourself, he is going to come back to you, sooner or later.Β
Don't be patient, because being patient means that you're waiting for him, and that generates resistance, just let it go, that doesn't mean forget him, means be happy and live day by day, working on yourself, going out with your friends, practice a sport, a hobby, anything that makes you happy.Β
Do your visualizations, RS or whathever you want, but do it like a hobby, don't expecting nothing, just do it because feels good.Β
How are you sure he is gonna come back sooner or later? I'm only gonna ask this once but based off how he treated me you think it's just friends or more?
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He treated you dismissively before so a lot of change will have to come from both of you. You, to not accept crumbs and a lesser version of the relationship you want and him to learn how to treat women. By doing what you are doing you are showing him you value your self respect above him and that's good. He still has to learn that.
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Thanks for the comments I'm stopping the 25 day challenge for now. I hear you can manifest with just self love. I actually feel like that may be why Wednesday was a success. Honestly it appears that he misses me or he wouldn't have been disappointed I was leaving or texted me when I left. I really felt something linger and it seems like he realizes I have backed off a lot. And if he feels my energy now he is really gonna feel it lol we will see if that freaks him out. I want a relationship I want one with him but I also really want one so I may date more. So I'm gonna just do self love and if I feel like doing more techniques etc I will. My intention is out there the universe can feel it. It knows what I want.
Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/10/2017 8:08 am)
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
Thanks for the comments I'm stopping the 25 day challenge for now. I hear you can manifest with just self love. I actually feel like that may be why Wednesday was a success. Honestly it appears that he misses me or he wouldn't have been disappointed I was leaving or texted me when I left. I really felt something linger and it seems like he realizes I have backed off a lot. And if he feels my energy now he is really gonna feel it lol we will see if that freaks him out. I want a relationship I want one with him but I also really want one so I may date more. So I'm gonna just do self love and if I feel like doing more techniques etc I will. My intention is out there the universe can feel it. It knows what I want.
For this, obviously he is feeling something, just continue with your life, be happy and let the universe work for you, work in self love it's a fantastic idea.
Last edited by Kavik (9/10/2017 3:51 pm)
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Kavik wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
Thanks for the comments I'm stopping the 25 day challenge for now. I hear you can manifest with just self love. I actually feel like that may be why Wednesday was a success. Honestly it appears that he misses me or he wouldn't have been disappointed I was leaving or texted me when I left. I really felt something linger and it seems like he realizes I have backed off a lot. And if he feels my energy now he is really gonna feel it lol we will see if that freaks him out. I want a relationship I want one with him but I also really want one so I may date more. So I'm gonna just do self love and if I feel like doing more techniques etc I will. My intention is out there the universe can feel it. It knows what I want.
For this, obviously he is feeling something, just continue with your life, be happy and let the universe work for you, work in self love it's a fantastic idea.
Well it's my perception of him. So idk if I'm just being bias or that's what it is. Based on current circumstances it seems like the universe is telling me the opposite. I have been working on self love more and more now that's the only thing I want to do. Like it appears he cared in some way doing that. He definetly did text me and the part that got me was "let me know if ya need anything" it was 12 midnight.
Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/10/2017 3:58 pm)
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I saw It the other day and it wasn't scary at all. The ghetto theater I went to to save a few bucks was scarier than that movie. Too many jump scares, not enough eerie foreboding and personality and crucial themes that made the book great. It's a good modern horror movie, not the great horror movie I wanted smh.