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Hey all!Β
So I wanted to share some success that happened the other day. & for you all to share your thoughts too! Don't want to think this is bigger than it is!
My POI ended things back in early June. We didn't spend A LOT of time together, but we were dating. Anyway, since he ended things he's liked my instagram/facebook posts sporadically, wished me a happy birthday in July, and did respond to a text I had sent him back in August.Β
So, his birthday was this past Thursday and I decided to send him a text to wish him a happy birthday. We ended up texting back and forth catching up. Then we started texting about me taking a test to become certified in something that he already is so I told him "you gotta help me!" (to see his response). So he responded saying he thinks he still has the questions that helped him prepare & that he'd give them to me. So because I was feeling good (we were going back and forth from about 2:30pm-9:15pm) I said "sounds great! we can go for a birthday drink [and for mine too since your text asking me for a drink on my birthday must've been lost ;) ]. So he responded back saying "haha sounds good! " I was obviously flying high at that point.
I wanted to be the first one to end the conversation so I sent a picture of my puppy and said "your furry friend wanted to wish you a happy birthday too. But, I'm wiped. I'm going to try to get some sleep. Talk soon! " He wrote back saying "haha thank you. goodnight
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I thought our conversation was great & that it seemed promising that he agreed to meet up for a drink! He also included a lot of exclamation marks and smiley faces (which he isn't usually one for doing).
AND the last thing, yesterday I posted a selfie and he liked it on both instagram and facebook (this was the day after our conversation!)
I have been super pumped and in a great mood the few days leading up to his birthday & definitely since.
What do ya'll think?! Also should I now use LOA to manifest him following up and asking me for a drink? If so, HOW? haha
Sorry for the long post!!Β
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Awww! Hooray!!!
Just visualize what you want. I follow a YouTuber who talks about how people manifest. Some people want marriage so they just envision the end result. Their little manifestations are the dates, new jobs, things slowly falling into place to build up to that end result. Others manifest each step individually. If that's your route, think about that you want next. Maybe script and visualize that. Sounds like you have a good grip on this!
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80saeaak wrote:
Awww! Hooray!!!
Just visualize what you want. I follow a YouTuber who talks about how people manifest. Some people want marriage so they just envision the end result. Their little manifestations are the dates, new jobs, things slowly falling into place to build up to that end result. Others manifest each step individually. If that's your route, think about that you want next. Maybe script and visualize that. Sounds like you have a good grip on this!
Thanks! These are obviously baby steps, but I still think it's success for me!
I DO want marriage with him, and I have been visualizing our wedding day. However, being that we were in contact and having a drink is the next thing that needs to happen. I feel like for now I should be visualizing him reaching out to me about the drink & also us while having a drink. During the time we're having the drink I can make it more intimate. Him telling me things I've been waiting to hear, etc.
What do you think?
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Chelsbee29 wrote:
whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Hey all!Β
So I wanted to share some success that happened the other day. & for you all to share your thoughts too! Don't want to think this is bigger than it is!
My POI ended things back in early June. We didn't spend A LOT of time together, but we were dating. Anyway, since he ended things he's liked my instagram/facebook posts sporadically, wished me a happy birthday in July, and did respond to a text I had sent him back in August.Β
So, his birthday was this past Thursday and I decided to send him a text to wish him a happy birthday. We ended up texting back and forth catching up. Then we started texting about me taking a test to become certified in something that he already is so I told him "you gotta help me!" (to see his response). So he responded saying he thinks he still has the questions that helped him prepare & that he'd give them to me. So because I was feeling good (we were going back and forth from about 2:30pm-9:15pm) I said "sounds great! we can go for a birthday drink [and for mine too since your text asking me for a drink on my birthday must've been lost ;) ]. So he responded back saying "haha sounds good!" I was obviously flying high at that point.
I wanted to be the first one to end the conversation so I sent a picture of my puppy and said "your furry friend wanted to wish you a happy birthday too. But, I'm wiped. I'm going to try to get some sleep. Talk soon!" He wrote back saying "haha thank you. goodnight
"
I thought our conversation was great & that it seemed promising that he agreed to meet up for a drink! He also included a lot of exclamation marks and smiley faces (which he isn't usually one for doing).
AND the last thing, yesterday I posted a selfie and he liked it on both instagram and facebook (this was the day after our conversation!)
I have been super pumped and in a great mood the few days leading up to his birthday & definitely since.
What do ya'll think?! Also should I now use LOA to manifest him following up and asking me for a drink? If so, HOW? haha
Sorry for the long post!!ΒThat's great!!!Β
I have a couple of questions if you don't mindΒ? - Did you have N/C before this, did it end badly etc like were you blocked or anything beforehand?Β
Keep it up!!!! Let things flow now!
Thanks!! When he ended things back in early June, I was very calm (I didn't freak out and call him every name in the book, as he thought I would. I figured that would be a benefit for me in the longrun). So no, it did not end badly. In fact, the reason he ended it is because he told me he felt like we were in a "friend zone." However, I think it was a commitment thing. Β But we did go NC until my birthday (other than him liking facebook/instagram posts), which was in the middle of July. And no, neither of us blocked one another. I reached out in August about an inside joke we had, we went back and forth for like 2 texts each. Then I just reached Β back out on his birthday this past Thursday.
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Congrats! :3 hope all goes well
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Hey all!Β
So I wanted to share some success that happened the other day. & for you all to share your thoughts too! Don't want to think this is bigger than it is!
My POI ended things back in early June. We didn't spend A LOT of time together, but we were dating. Anyway, since he ended things he's liked my instagram/facebook posts sporadically, wished me a happy birthday in July, and did respond to a text I had sent him back in August.Β
So, his birthday was this past Thursday and I decided to send him a text to wish him a happy birthday. We ended up texting back and forth catching up. Then we started texting about me taking a test to become certified in something that he already is so I told him "you gotta help me!" (to see his response). So he responded saying he thinks he still has the questions that helped him prepare & that he'd give them to me. So because I was feeling good (we were going back and forth from about 2:30pm-9:15pm) I said "sounds great! we can go for a birthday drink [and for mine too since your text asking me for a drink on my birthday must've been lost ;) ]. So he responded back saying "haha sounds good!" I was obviously flying high at that point.
I wanted to be the first one to end the conversation so I sent a picture of my puppy and said "your furry friend wanted to wish you a happy birthday too. But, I'm wiped. I'm going to try to get some sleep. Talk soon!" He wrote back saying "haha thank you. goodnight
"
I thought our conversation was great & that it seemed promising that he agreed to meet up for a drink! He also included a lot of exclamation marks and smiley faces (which he isn't usually one for doing).
AND the last thing, yesterday I posted a selfie and he liked it on both instagram and facebook (this was the day after our conversation!)
I have been super pumped and in a great mood the few days leading up to his birthday & definitely since.
What do ya'll think?! Also should I now use LOA to manifest him following up and asking me for a drink? If so, HOW? haha
Sorry for the long post!!Β
You're definitely flying high!! I can feel it in your post hahah. Thank you for putting a smile on my face. ...
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LearningToDetach wrote:
whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Hey all!Β
So I wanted to share some success that happened the other day. & for you all to share your thoughts too! Don't want to think this is bigger than it is!
My POI ended things back in early June. We didn't spend A LOT of time together, but we were dating. Anyway, since he ended things he's liked my instagram/facebook posts sporadically, wished me a happy birthday in July, and did respond to a text I had sent him back in August.Β
So, his birthday was this past Thursday and I decided to send him a text to wish him a happy birthday. We ended up texting back and forth catching up. Then we started texting about me taking a test to become certified in something that he already is so I told him "you gotta help me!" (to see his response). So he responded saying he thinks he still has the questions that helped him prepare & that he'd give them to me. So because I was feeling good (we were going back and forth from about 2:30pm-9:15pm) I said "sounds great! we can go for a birthday drink [and for mine too since your text asking me for a drink on my birthday must've been lost ;) ]. So he responded back saying "haha sounds good!" I was obviously flying high at that point.
I wanted to be the first one to end the conversation so I sent a picture of my puppy and said "your furry friend wanted to wish you a happy birthday too. But, I'm wiped. I'm going to try to get some sleep. Talk soon!" He wrote back saying "haha thank you. goodnight
"
I thought our conversation was great & that it seemed promising that he agreed to meet up for a drink! He also included a lot of exclamation marks and smiley faces (which he isn't usually one for doing).
AND the last thing, yesterday I posted a selfie and he liked it on both instagram and facebook (this was the day after our conversation!)
I have been super pumped and in a great mood the few days leading up to his birthday & definitely since.
What do ya'll think?! Also should I now use LOA to manifest him following up and asking me for a drink? If so, HOW? haha
Sorry for the long post!!ΒYou're definitely flying high!! I can feel it in your post hahah. Thank you for putting a smile on my face.
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I'm glad you could feel it! That means the Universe is well aware of my vibe too! And I'm also happy it put a smile on your face! Sending good vibes and love your way!! ππ