I'm not sure how long everyone else has been in their journey for


My journey started 2 years ago, on September 7th.     I remember I was so needy, so insecure,etc.  which led to the breakup.      It's funny, I forgot what it was about, but we basically argued for the whole weekend(2 years ago, September 7th was on a Monday)    It's funny, that Friday and early that Saturday, everything was great


Things fell apart quickly after that,  at that stage of my life, I felt like I needed to talk to her 24/7 and when we didn't talk, I would get needy

Also, it looked like things were gonna get fixed.  But later on in the day(she had time to think).  She decided to end the relationship.     Funny enough, it was around the time I'm currently posting this thread

Looking back, I feel like the breakup was the best thing that happened to me, if it didn't happen that day, it would have probably happened later on, with the way I was so needy back then

I was so heartbroken.     Thankfully, I found loa. Around Halloween time, then I created my account in novemenber

Like anyone else.   I focused way too much on  getting her back,   I tried to RS,visualize, etc way too much.   Looking back, it delayed my healing    I didn't feel fully "healed" until early this year

I really wish I would have let go right when I marked about loa, and uses loa to make myself better,   This is one of the reasons, why I suggest people who come here fresh out of a breakup to not think about RS, visualizing, etc.  you really need to heal yourself first and learn how to love yourself more than ever

I wouldn't tell anyone to give up on their desire.    I would just tell people to focus on themselves and make themselves the main focus


Honestly.  from may to June.   I still had struggles, this time it was with a new person.      But she was going through things, from late July to early August.   So I had time to myself,  that time was probably the best period of my life,   I realized I had to stop relying on others for my happiness     I really started to love/value myself.   Funny enough, about a month ago.  The new girl(who I've known for a year and a half, we were always close). But since I started putting myself on the pedestal.   Our whole bond has gotten stronger

She literally tells me everything, I'm like one of the few people in her inner circle.         I still would love a relationship with her


But right now,   I'm just focus on staying in alignment.   I'm focused on improving  the relationship with myself

I wouldn't mind getting into a relationship one day with the new girl.   And I wouldn't mind getting into a relationship back with my ex.   Or it could be someone totally different

I'm just focused on myself and being happy, it feels so freeing      Plus it's so much easier manifesting a specific person when you're in love with yourself.     


The funny thing is.   I don't do any techniques really.     I just exercise, play sports, watch sports, go out, play video games,  binge watch tv shows and just anything to get me into alignment




I hope everyone has a great journey