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Should I just let go of this love thing?
So for over a month, after deciding to be friends with this beautiful woman, I've looked on Craigslist for others like her, only to run into nutcases and ghosters and the only one I've met from Craigslist that reminds me of my friend has a conflicting work schedule, so I have no idea how I can meet her in person... And on OKCupid, I've recently liked some profiles and sent messages but only two responded. To the two who responded I'll ask if we can meet up at some point Oddly enough, my friend has been having trouble with ghosters and some posts being flagged We both reposted on Craigslist and hopefully neither of us will get flagged (I've gotten flagged only 2 times) Whether its a coincidence we're both having trouble, should I just focus on something different for awhile?
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Re: Should I just let go of this love thing?
Do you not meet people naturally, through friends, activity, social settings? All you've mentioned are on line dating and apps.
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Re: Should I just let go of this love thing?
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Do you not meet people naturally, through friends, activity, social settings? All you've mentioned are on line dating and apps.
Usually yes. But then I got this new job where some Saturdays you have to work (including weekdays), which leaves me Sundays. Usu on Sundays I'm hanging with my friend lol
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Re: Should I just let go of this love thing?
I can vouch on this dating is hard for the longest time all I had was dating apps. However when I started changing my mind set and focusing more on me things changed . My intention was put there to be in a relationship and all of a sudden wen I was just going out hanging out with friends they would happen to bring someone I didn't know or meet someone at the location whatever I was doing this happened and that person gravitated towards me and I was getting phone numbers left and right. Now I wasn't doing anything special or different I just focused on me and my self love and things started happening. So I really do believe loa is at the core of meeting people putting out intention letting go and keeping the focus on you. If that all makes sense
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I can vouch on this dating is hard for the longest time all I had was dating apps. However when I started changing my mind set and focusing more on me things changed . My intention was put there to be in a relationship and all of a sudden wen I was just going out hanging out with friends they would happen to bring someone I didn't know or meet someone at the location whatever I was doing this happened and that person gravitated towards me and I was getting phone numbers left and right. Now I wasn't doing anything special or different I just focused on me and my self love and things started happening. So I really do believe loa is at the core of meeting people putting out intention letting go and keeping the focus on you. If that all makes sense
Sadly, sometimes I think the self love thing would take a whole lifetime. At times, I'd rather love others...
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Thread Starter- princessgirl87
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Re: Should I just let go of this love thing?
I can vouch on this dating is hard for the longest time all I had was dating apps. However when I started changing my mind set and focusing more on me things changed . My intention was put there to be in a relationship and all of a sudden wen I was just going out hanging out with friends they would happen to bring someone I didn't know or meet someone at the location whatever I was doing this happened and that person gravitated towards me and I was getting phone numbers left and right. Now I wasn't doing anything special or different I just focused on me and my self love and things started happening. So I really do believe loa is at the core of meeting people putting out intention letting go and keeping the focus on you. If that all makes sense
Also I feel like I need a distraction from feeling lonely
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Re: Should I just let go of this love thing?
It takes some time but not forever but it is the foundation to manifesting anything. Things may manifest without it but you are going to be dependent on others for your happiness which in turn can give a needy vibe. You should be happy with yourself first. Not saying you can't be distracted you can you can go out with friends etc but the part that is more hurtful is being needy and dependent on others. As long as you go out have fun to have have fun and stuff yea. Nothing wrong with needing distractions do what works for you. But while you do that I highly recommend self love . And manifesting anyone like an ex or specific person you need self love. I'm having a hard time explaining today so maybe someone can step in and talk about the importance of it. Like I said distraction isn't bad but don't be dependent on others it's temporary where as self love and being happy with you no one can take away. You get more when you have gratitude and love with yourself then when you are searching for the outside to heal you.
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Re: Should I just let go of this love thing?
It takes some time but not forever but it is the foundation to manifesting anything. Things may manifest without it but you are going to be dependent on others for your happiness which in turn can give a needy vibe. You should be happy with yourself first. Not saying you can't be distracted you can you can go out with friends etc but the part that is more hurtful is being needy and dependent on others. As long as you go out have fun to have have fun and stuff yea. Nothing wrong with needing distractions do what works for you. But while you do that I highly recommend self love . And manifesting anyone like an ex or specific person you need self love. I'm having a hard time explaining today so maybe someone can step in and talk about the importance of it. Like I said distraction isn't bad but don't be dependent on others it's temporary where as self love and being happy with you no one can take away. You get more when you have gratitude and love with yourself then when you are searching for the outside to heal you.
I honestly think Imma give up on love because I'm tired of dealing with it all and get used to being on my own...
I'll be frank... I have days where I do like being me but I still have days where I dont like being me, like today...
Those days when I wish I were prettier or more popular or actually wanted mutually...by ppl I actually like and not being liked by nutcases...
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